Im in love with a colleague of mine who is 10 yrs younger than me. When we fell in love , we did not know the age gap. We both belong to conservative Indian families. Fearing parental opposition he has requested that we split, though it was he who had initiated the relation and wanted to marry me. I agreed as I could see that he doesn’t hv the guts to go against his parents. However, since we work in the same office, its becoming increasingly difficult for us to pretend that all’s well and im unable to get over him. Im 39 and he is 29. Pls let me know whether there is any hope for  a reconciliation. Will we come back together and get married sometime in the future ?? I know that he too cares are lot for me and is hurting too.  What should I do on my part to make it work. Im unable to forget him, mainly due to the proximity. Pls let me know our future..

Card 1 - The Present
This card represents the current influences on the present situation or event.

Strength - Reversed
Your thoughts may be petty and prejudiced. You may feel weak and give in to unworthy impulses. You may face lack of energy and will power. Do not feel intimidated or pressurized by anyone. Surrendering to opposition, a failure to deal with a situation or person in a way that feels right. Rather than retreat, draw upon all your reserves of inner strength and confront the problem; you may discover that the roaring lion is a pussycat after all.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                               
Card 2 - Waning Influences
This card represents the influences that have affected the event and have been overcome.

Eight of Pentacles
You may be learning a new skill at wok. Only hard work will reap rewards. Your skill will be put to test. You should not halt with you work but continue till it gives you results. An opportunity to bring your talents to the fore with the promise of financial reward. It is likely that any enterprise, no matter how small, will make you feel valued both materially and emotionally. There are challenges about your getting the job done while working with him.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                               
Card 3 - Hidden or Unconscious Influences
This card represents hidden or unknown influences.

Ten of Cups
This is the time for happiness. Relationships will be fruitful. There will be domestic bliss. You will be emotionally balanced. Success and rewards will be seen soon. A harmonious and secure environment will be experienced. Complete contentment and good relationships on every level. Wonderful accord between families, lovers, and friends. This peace is stable and lasting, and you feel confident enough to truly enjoy the benefits. Also an auspicious card for great group activities.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                               
Card 4 - Emerging Influences
This card represents new influences that may effect the situation.

Five of Cups
This signifies loss and regret about something in the past. You need to forget the past and make a new beginning. Relationships may be unsatisfactory. There may be some kind of sorrow or remorse in your life. You need to accept things as they are and move on. Unhappiness in a relationship. The sadness and disappointment you feel may be due to breaking up with a partner, and you know that what is hurt cannot be healed by regret. Focus on what remains, rather than dwell on what you have lost.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                               
Card 5 - Synthesis
This represents the synthesis of the whole situation and the meaning of all the influences.

Eight of Wands
You may be approaching your goal.  This is the time to act. Your life seems to be full of hope and progress. This is the time to prove yourself. You have a lot of new ideas which need to be implemented.  Romantic relationships may work out. Great news, potential journeys, and myriad opportunities surround you when this card arrives. Your innate talent shines and others appreciate your true worth. Take advantage of this frantic, stimulating phase now, and further your future ambitions.


Whatever plans you have for the future with him, go ahead and pursue them. The Eight of Wands suggests that you may be approaching your goal. Forget about the past and start over because the romantic relationship may work out if you don't dwell on past regrets about the break up. Focus on what remains in the relationship and use it to your advantage.

Thank u so much for your reading , capistranas. It means that i should make an effort to make this relationship work again , right ?? Thanks.. i shall try...