I usually do at least a seven card spread about relationships. Sometimes it works and sometimes it gets a little vague.

Would there be anyway for you to do a relationship reading for me? I met this guy about 5 years ago. We somehow lost contact until recently I called him. Now we have started talking again and calling each other on a regular basis again. I was just wondering how the cards read for this relationship.

Ok, I'll try. Just remember I am new to this. I'll have it up in the next couple days. Right now I am going to bed.

Ashley,

I am not psychic but I can relate to your post.  Dr. Phil has a great book out called Love Smart.  You should get it.   I have it but haven't read it but should!  I know that he has some very good advice to help you come out of your shell and realize that you are just as good as everyone else.  Besides, isn't beauty in the eyes of the beholder?  I bet there are guys who have liked you and you never knew it!  That has happened to me a few times.  When I was your age, I was always trying to keep my feelings from being known.  Now, at 48, I realize it's just better to let your feelings be known and deal with the consequences and move on or fall in love!

Summer is on its way so you should be lifted in spirits by the sun.  If this guy at work doesn't work out, there will be someone else.  Trust me.   Do you ever go on any of the dating websites?  You can just look on www .match.com.  

Best of luck,
Brenda

Shapeshifter Tarot

First card: 8 Courage
Keywords: Finding inner strength, Courage in the face of adversity
Prophecy: Like the bear woman, the seeker must learn the proper times for gentleness, standing one's ground, and fierce action for protection. Gentle, controlled resistance to opposition comes from understanding the nature of bear energy. Filling yourself with spiritual power can help you overcome material pressures oppositions, and attacks.

Second card: Water element (cups) 6 memories
Keywords: Reunion, past lives
Prophecy: Old memories, some of them are painful, are surfacing; don't dwell on the mistakes you made but seek to find one good thing, then move on. Acquaintances out of your past may be reentering your life soon. If their presence is undesirable, politely make the separation final; if pleasant, enjoy the reunion. Dreams and intuition may lead you to explore past lives, seeking answers  to present dilemmas. Separate illusion from reality, or there will be no benefit in this exploration. You may discover that this past-life seeking will open new doors to old knowledge of psychic abilities.

Third card: Earth element (Pentacles) 7 Growth
Keywords: Beginnings, talents, employment
Opportunities for new beginnings are swiftly coming to the seeker. Use them wisely and in a positive way to gain a better life for yourself. Employment or a new job can be yours if you actively set goals and take action. Inborn talents, both physical and psychic, can now be realized and developed. Take the initiative and prepare yourself.

Fourth card: Air element (Wands) 9 Strength
Keywords: Preparedness, vision, divine help, perception
Prophecy: With the strength of the mighty wind, you need to be prepared to defend your personal patterns- what you know to be true. Utilize natural cycles and Goddess consciousness to manifest important patterns by tapping into the infinite source of oneness. Being watchful of natures rhythm, a strengthening of perception and intuition is sure to come. With many internal resources at your disposal right now, this is a time of spiritual vision and physical strength against any opposition. Your subconscious and conscious work in sync. You may receive help from the Goddess or the God, or a higher power.

Fifth card: Fire Element (Swords) 9 Darkness
Keywords: Great loss, suffering, desolation
Prophecy: The seeker is going through, or will face a time of deep loss, suffering or misery. This could come through illness, loss of someone close, or series of negative events that makes life difficult. Burdens-self imposed or actual- will be heavy during this phase, thus creating much mental and emotional anguish. Try to keep despair and doubt under control; walk through these trials knowing they will end and new opportunities for happiness will come.

Sixth Card: Earth element (Pentacles) 3 mastery
Keywords: Achievement, perseverance, joy
Prophecy: The seeker has come through a time of inner or outer crisis and is facing the rewards of of positive action and reaction. If you are still in the backwaters or trial, persevere- for you will triumph in the end. Your goals and dreams will soon be achieved.

Seventh Card: 7 Power
Keywords: Success, change, balance
Prophecy: Change, movement, and travel are indicated. A card of expanded spiritual ability and personal evolution, Power represents your ability to do many things simultaneously. Allow yourself to blend your cosmic and earthly powers, understanding the boundless of existence. Representing the universal principle of change, causation, and strength of will, Power is all about overcoming fear. The Power card suggests a time for centering and personal balance, integrating action and contemplation.

Sorry I didn't get it up sooner. I've discovered I can't do readings in the weekdays because mind isn't on the cards. I can only be focused on the cards on weekends for some reason. So here it is anyway, things do sound good except the one card. I'm not sure how accurate it may seem to you. Just remember, you are the first person I've done a reading for. I actually kind of liked it. I was more focused on your question then I normally am on my own.

Let me know what you thought because if I did it right then maybe I will do more readings for people on here.

I don't believe in online dating. But I have been thinking about talking to him because I am driving everyone else including myself crazy. Any other guy I have ever liked I could get over just like that but this guy is different for some reason and I don't know why. People aren't used to seeing me like this because I've never been the type that gets love crazy over someone like I am with him. I normally move on with my life if I think there is no chance.