Hi Danny,
We can try a mirror relationship spread.
Card 1: Your role. 9 of cups. Satisfaction, contentment, and choices. You may be feeling pleased with the way things have been going, and have options open to you.
Card 2: The way you see the other person in the relationship. 2 of wands. She may have been single for a long while. You worry that she may be lonely, perhaps not meeting her full potential.
Card 3: The way they see themselves. King of Wands. She may be conservative in her belief systems, and looks for likewise in a partner. She would like to be married someday.
Card 4: What the person represents to you. 4 of pentacles, reversed. She is a challenge. Initiating a relationship means you will have to take chances, but this is a positive thing to you.
Card 5: What you represent to them. Queen of swords. Have you been a widower, or lost someone recently? This came up in your last reading as well. She may perceive you as someone who is still mourning a past relationship.
Card 6: Obstacles within the relationship. Queen of wands, reversed. Concerns about abandonment or infidelity, real or imagined, may occur for one or both of you. This can put strain on the relationship.
Card 7: Strengths within the relationship. 7 of wands. The two of you may engage in friendly competition, but this is a good thing, as it encourages both of you to grow and succeed.
Card 8: Probable result. Queen of cups. This looks good. This is a card of happy relationships and marriages, a devoted and virtuous woman in your life, happiness and wisdom.
Based just on the cards, it seems like you have a real good shot.
