Hi,

I would like more insight into the status of my friendship.  We are two ladies and here's our info.

Jacqui Mathieu - 21 July 1966
Lay Siang, Teo - 06 September 1969

We can try a mirror spread, to focus on the relationship dynamics.


Card 1:   Your role - Ace of Wands, reversed. You may be experiencing troubles, lack of empowerment, or a lack of creative energy lately.


Card 2:   The way you see the other person in the relationship - the Emperor. You may view her as a person that is more powerful than yourself. She may have strong opinions and may dominate the friendship.


Card 3:   The way they see themselves - Page of Cups. Your friend believes that she is acting in your best interest, and that she is correct in her viewpoints.  She does not bare ill will.


Card 4:   What the person represents to you - the Fool. You may see her as a breath of fresh air - fun to be with under good circumstances.  However, you may also see her as potentially impulsive or her reasoning sometimes flawed.


Card 5:   What you represent to them - 10 of wands. She may perceive the friendship as hard work. If your recent interactions are troubling, she may feel burdened, worrying about the friendship.


Card 6:   Obstacles within the relationship - King of Swords. Beware of sharp tongues and harsh words exchanged. It is also important to be compassionate towards each other, even if you disagree on practical matters.


Card 7:   Strengths within the relationship - 6 of pentacles. You share openly with each other, and are there for each other when times are hard.


Card 8:   Probable result - the Hierophant. You are likely to continue this friendship in alliance. You may take turns accommodating each other's need to be in control of the relationship.

Thanks for that.  I never knew she is worried about the friendship?  Yes, we do have difference of opinions.  

I thought she had given up on the friendship.

The "worried" part was my interpretation. The 10 of wands indicates burden, and hard work. So, perhaps the friendship required more effort than she wanted to contribute at this time? In light of what you say, the final card interpretation might also be taken differently.