least favourite of all cards so far, total chaos pain destruction, almost like an earthquake

I see, uncontrolled energy, moon shines thru the tower, two human figures on either side, destroyed by lightening.

Must be a major change.  Something is destroyed.  Something is shattered (glass is gone).  Lightening - outside force beyond your control.

Had to look this one up:  ... this is a sort of purification. Whatever is solid and good will remain ... you can rebuild with confidence.

This card follows the DEVIL card which to me represents temptation and sin.  The TOWER card to me represents Exposure and Consequence.  If you give in to temptations, the exposure of your secrets could have devastating consequences.  Marriage failed because of an affair, Kicked off sports team because of drug use, Gave in to unprotected sex with stranger and contracted something, Cheated on test and failed class-all examples of what I think this card means.  Upheaval caused by decisions made.  consequences of a sin or wrong doing, whether it is the person having the reading that did it or someone else did it to them, there is destruction caused.