hello,
i really want some one to answer my query about my love life as ..i grew up seeing a very unhealthy relationship of my parents and it has affected me profoundly..i am scared because i dont want to end like them...can please(I WILL BE VERY GREATFULL) tell me..when will i meet the right guy in my life and how will he be.

is there any any chance of a childhood friend(whom i really liked but couldnot tell him due to family problems) of coming back...

waiting anxiously for the reply
thank you.  

Dear Jamie,

I am sorry to hear about your childhood experience within your family and the negative example of a relationship between your parents. These things do leave their marks in our life and easier said than done for me to tell you not to get affected by it, but that is something you cannot control. I hope in time as you grow older and mature, you will realise that was your parents’ problem, as every adult has relationship issues at some stage in their life.

You are my concern for me now.  Perhaps I get the feeling that you want to erase all that has happened in your childhood by submerging yourself into a relationship of your own and thereby finding there what lacked between your parents.

For someone as sensitive as you come across to me, I do not believe you will “end up like them”. And, furthermore, I think you should slow down in your quest to finding Mr Right at the age of 19 and start living life and have friendships, affairs and why not flings and therefore mature emotionally in relationships until you find your own Mr Right, as he no doubt will appear to you.

For the purposes of a reading, your question is rather a predictive one and I for one do not do such readings, especially when you ask a question such as the one: tell me..when will i meet the right guy in my life and how will he be.  My good man, no one can answer such a question, and, even if they did, nothing is cast in stone. You have asked a similar question in the Picture Reading and the Palmistry forums and you have also asked this same question in May in the tarot forum and you were given a similar reply by the Mod as well as a reading.

My dear one, I feel that constantly asking the same question when and where and how is doing you no good and is halting your progress to move forward and find things in your own time. Assuming one of us told you that in a couple of months you will meet the man of your life, what would you do Jamie? Stop living and wait for that period to come? And then what? What if you did not meet your man as predicted? Will you ask again and again and again? You see the vicious circle that you may be subject to here and I am so scared you will fall into it and not live the precious life you have ahead of you.

Please allow me to advise you to put Mr Right on the backburner and you go ahead and LIVE your life. Instead of asking for predictions, live your life in such a way so that you may attract new associations, friendships and why not relationships in your life.  Desperation is known to halt progress, Jamie, and please let go of that thought pattern and embrace your current life without that elusive Mr Right and embrace MR-RIGHT-JAMIE for the time being and that way you will be able to attract the other Mr Right for you.
All you need is good people and friends around you and no predictions.

Please note you can only ask for one type of reading at a given time and I am not sure how the other forums will respond to your request. I wish you all the very best and I am sorry if you feel disappointed not having been given a reading in the tarot forum.

This is my opinion and if someone else wishes to give you a reading in line of what you have asked, they are welcome to do so.

Best wishes to you.

thank you soooo much for the enriching reply....u really given me the right advise....i really am greatful...i just was very inquisitive and scared .......i really appreciate it
thanks again  

My dear Jamie
Enjoy every day of your life and be happy.
Blessings to you.