Hi Renjer,
There are a lot of he's on this forum, don't you just LOVE IT? In that sense, the he's tend to give a more "hard and fast"--practicall flavour!
This thread has adressed a few matters, which in fact has already been answered, you must just browse around, and you may find some information to help you.
As for "naming" the "subject" or person to be read? I always introduce myself on a first name basis, and also use the name the querant gives me. It is important to have a personal but "arms-length" relationship with your querant. Also, I keep a record of all my readings, under the person's name. Then, should the person need more advice, just go and check the reading, most of the times, you may find the answer there.
Something interesting, is to actually monitor the progress of your querant through the spread. Once you've established in which house your querant is presently, you are able to give instruction and advice, based on the remaining cards. This rings true for the CC and a few other spreads.
As for a spread to use, or, compile, is entirily up to you. However, the placement of each card should be well defined. How can you picture a route to follow, if you don't have road signs?
The Pshycic connection, this is an important matter for anyone doing divination, in any form. The mere fact that you have been drawn to read Tarot is already an indication that you have phsycic abilities!! When I try to connect to any querant, be they with me, or in or on another continent, is to sit quietily, and ask for guidance. Interesting is that I receive "snapshots" of a certain activity or environment at some time.
However, I'm by no means strictly guided by these "snapshots", At times I'm on the dot, at other times just a total blank. When this happens, I read the cards but in "theory", later I may receive a revelation. Receiving revelations, takes totally different "items" or what-nots, One day an indicatoer of a truck, gave me direction, as I was thinking about the reading I was busy with, at that moment.
If you go back on my postings, etc. I was a bit of a "laugh", because I slept on my readings! Mmmmm, I still do!!
As Tarot has been a passion to me for a few years, I truly enjoy chatting, and perhaps get totally of the subject and move to the distant planet, u'll come to know it!

In this, I Tarotise each and every person, circumstance or set of influences at a time. It's just great to do it!! We then know what may happen tomorrow? A bit of a bummer, but we can cheat some times?
Have you ever thought how a wealthy person, being the King of Pent, may be in a 5 of Pent situation, it happens all the time?
Tarot is a live and Learn Science, enjoy your adventure!!!
Blessed be.