Hello!

I am in need of help, I promised a friend and another person who contacted me via my friend and asked me to do a reading, But I think I read the cards wrong, I kind of need a second opinion on these because I just can´t see the positve sides of these negative things that some cards represent. Is someone willing to give their opinion? I have only done this for almost 2 years, but I have been able to help people before so, I don´t know why it doesn´t come out as positive sides to me.

Reading one for XM:



The ones I don´t really understand are numbered from 1-X and I am using the Cosmic tarot deck, it is great for beginners like me. Those without numbers are the ones I understand

Negative sides of the relationship:
1.The chariot upside down(I thought this was one of the fate-cards?)

Being stuck, moving no-where, no victory
2.The hanged man upside down

No sacrifice, no new insight, cannot achieve or see what they want to do. Not willing to suffer the pain or not able to, there for no game.[/b]

Positive sides:
3.Seven pentacles upside down

Someone is impatient and rushing things, the sort who keeps blowing their chances, who creates something and the ruins it, does things badly.
king pentacles

A helpful man, proud and self-reliant, a respected man. Works hard to stay in charge, charming and funny even though he may come of as cold and allof. He will help and not ask for anything in return, will always provide the best for his family and stick by them. He cares about the ones he loves.

His personality:
the devil

Giving into impulses, cutting lose, going for the dream.  It is a very masculine card.

king sword

His loving, friendly but distant, a patient and careful man with high ideals. He can be kind, playful, loving and faithful, he treats his family fairly, he does however not put them first, his ideas comes first.

result of the relationship:

the world

Everything is coming together, successfully and at last, the querent will get what they´ve been working hard for, it stands for big ends, important ones.  A person who owns nothing because everything is theirs, no place is their home because every place is, it is all one, all complete.

4. 4 sword

The meditation card, the querent needs to get away, rest and recupeare. The card indicates that this person has been facing mental or emotional stress, arguments, misunderstandings or verbal abuse( I know she has) or that the person is in fact ill or injured. A healing retreat is needed, time to clear the head, heart and soul, or just fix the damaged body.





Reading for XL:

negative sides:

1. three cups

Celebrations, this represents two, happiness, togetherness.

5 wands

Conflicts and power struggles, leads to confusion and panic.

Positive:

2. princess cups upside down

Someone who is hard to motivate, they are always sad and will take you down with them. Sad messages, word of break-ups, divorce, infidelity, alcholism and drugs, the romance or family is in trouble.

3. Justice upside down

The balance is gone, it can´t be achievde because the tools of justice are missing.

his personality

4.the empress upside down

Going farther than just not being able to grow, tear out what already is growing and living and then killing it. Uproot everything including this empress, someone wants to destreoy everything that was beautiful.

death upside down

Something has made it impossible to move on



result:

the lovers upside down

To make the wrong decision for the wrong reasons, not using the head or intuition to communicate and the communcation between them is not happening. They are not soulmates but together for earthly reasons, not because they were meant to be.

4 cups upside down
Empty, can´t even imagen a better life because it is so boring
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You dont say what deck you are using.

Why dont you pick clarifier cards for those points that you are not sure of the message?

Hi Bella,

If ever Ive seen confusion, this may be it? If you want a second opinion on your reading then you have truly no confidance in giving a positive reading.

Taking cards at face value, is at times good, but also irrevocably bad news!

The readings you have posted, may have a lot more information, than what you may find if you "glance" over the cards.

The question raised by Cedars, Which deck? What spread, how the cards are placed? These are important, as it can give insights, you may not think of.

In having reversed cards, does not spell negative at all, but may have positive reflections. You need to consider the road you walk with your querant. Find commonalities in the cards and build a story which makes sense.

Blessed be.

Ok, sorry I see now you are using the Cosmic Deck..... never heard of it.