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Posts: 947 · Posted: Sat Jan 16, 2010 12:18 pm

Ok, I will try to group all ideas given on the 'To Speak or not to Speak' thread on interesting things to be included/excluded from both the seeker's and the reader's guidelines in the Tarot Reading Forum.
I ask you all to peruse them (once more!) and make sure all we discussed is reflected in them. Then submit your votes, please!

SEEKER'S GUIDELINES

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Welcome to the Mystic Board Tarot Reading Forum
By following these few points we can all help to make this forum better

1. Please do not ask for multiple readings in several forums and/or too frequently, this abuses the goodwill of our readers and may also be confusing for you. Your posts could be locked and any more requests moved to the thread jail. One reading every 3 months or so is considered more than enough, since each reading will usually cover at least that long. Note that we have ways of finding out if one person is posting several requests under different identities.

2. Please do not request readings by PM, it is invasive and puts too much pressure on certain readers. However, you can request a specific reader in your post. That reader will be glad to be sought after and will get to you as soon as possible. Apart from our featured reader, there are others who also give them, if a bit less frequently. You can ask in general so that the first available reader will answer, maybe getting faster results. Or you can browse through previous readings and see which style you like best.

3. You must be over 18 to request a reading, since it is illegal in many countries to give readings to underage people. For that same reason, you could be refused a reading if readers suspect you may be lying about your age.

4. Please do not ask for readings for others or third party readings, since readers need a person's explicit permission to delve into personal matters and post them on a public board. It doesn't matter if that person gave you permission: they must sign in and ask for themselves.

5. Please word your question carefully, think about the content and take responsibility for it. Questions that are deemed to be offensive, unsuitable or life threatening will be removed. Please do not ask about health, pregnancy, baby's gender, etc, as these will also be locked or removed. Only a qualified medical practitioner is able to diagnose or prescribe, so for subjects such as these please refer to your own doctor.

6. Please post some feedback. All our readers very kindly give their time and energy freely, so if you are lucky enough to receive a reading please take a moment to give some feedback and perhaps a kind word or thanks too. This will be very much appreciated and helps all our readers to improve their services and encourage them to continue to spend their time here.

7. Some wise words from the site's wise grandpa, Rhutobello: A READING CAN'T GIVE YOU ANYTHING....A READING CAN'T take anything away from You! Meaning that unless you take an active role in your life, good things are unlikely to happen, no matter what a reading tells you.

Not got a reading yet?

1) You may not be contributing in any way to the forum. You need not be an expert to take part in general discussions on the board or refer the site to your friends and family, nor to ask / answer / share generic questions about the subject you are interested in. Jumping in with a reading request as your first post is a little impolite and does not allow you to get the feeling of the community.

2) You may have posted your request in the wrong forum so your post might have been locked and sent to "Thread Jail".

3) Your information may be incomplete/ incorrect. Look around for the kind of info required for a reading: some forums expect you to give at least name, gender and date of birth, though not all, and not if you don't want to.

4) Yes and No questions, as well as very specific issues, are very hard to answer successfully through a Tarot layout or spread.

5) The cards will usually point to the area that needs attention, even if your question was about something else. For example, you may be asking about love, but if most cards regard economic matters, that is the info you will get.

6) The readers may be busy for the time being. Do have patience, your requests will be answered as and when readers are up to it. Some readers are more inspired by certain requests, and each reader will first answer those they feel a link to. Please do not send requests via PM as this is not very polite; instead be patient and check that your request is complete.

We have free Tarot Reading Software available for your use and it can be downloaded here
http://www.mysticboard.com/divination-softwares/mb-free-tarot-reading-software.html
We are also running a free Learn Tarot Course here

Thank you for taking the time to read this.

The Tarot Community at Mystic Board

READER'S GUIDELINES

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To all our Readers,

1. Everyone is welcome to give FREE readings here at Mystic Board. However, any unauthorized advertising or soliciting will be removed and may lead to a ban.
It would be nice for you to say hello and introduce yourself, so that we can get to know each other, understand who the reading came from, and how it was given. We also ask that you name the deck used, spread and its place titles, as this allows everyone to benefit from the reading.
We are pleased to present our 'Featured Reader', so that people know a little more about one of the hardest working contributors to this forum.

2. Readings only available to seekers 18 and over, as underage readings are illegal in some countries

3. Before posting a reading, please check to see if a reading has already been given. Keep in mind that giving another may be confusing to the seeker, and make the original reader feel unwanted, or their reading ignored/ usurped. But in some cases we might feel the need to add something of value: if that is the case, by all means do so, though it would be nice to begin your post with a polite word to the original reader.
Otherwise, rather than doubling up, it is best to fill in a request that has '0' answers so far. Once you decide to answer a certain request, it may be a good idea to post your intentions of answering that request, so other readers can leave you to it, and the querent knows there is someone looking into it.
If you realize another reading has been given after yours, check the date and time, as it is possible both were being written and posted more or less simultaneously, so that no meddling was intended.

4. Please note there is a different forum for each type of reading. Try to ensure that the seeker gets the kind of reading they require and expect, in the right forum, as readings posted in the wrong forum may be moved, or removed altogether. These are our reading forums so far: Tarot, Numerology, Western Astrology, Vedic Astrology, Palmistry, Runes, Psychic, and Picture reading forums.

5. For fairness sake, we request readers to check the number of posts a querent has made before answering their request. This can be done by clicking on the posters' name in the left hand box and then clicking on the link there to 'Find all posts by...' If they don't contribute to the community, specially if they are all reading requests, please think carefully and use your judgment before giving them another reading, as this helps neither the seeker nor the community.
However, giving a reading to a first post request is up to the reader. Many people are in need of help and guidance, and will greatly benefit from a reading at this time, then go on to be valued members of our community. We ask you to be welcoming, understanding, compassionate, kind and gentle with all our members, but especially the new ones. You can always choose not to read.
Also bear in mind that most querents are one timers and will disappear after they get a reading, or worse, not even return to read your reading and give thanks or feedback.
We recommend not to give querents more than one reading a month, as some types of reading need only be given every six months or even once in a lifetime!

6. Please do not overload yourself or feel guilty if unable to cope with piling requests: no need to answer them all! We do not want any of our readers to burn out and refuse to read in the future. This is a place for you to come relax, enjoy, have fun, make friends and have a good laugh. So do exactly that, and answer only those requests that call to you.

7. If you get pestered for readings via PM, ask them to post their request in the appropriate forum. If it keeps happening, contact a mod or admin who will deal with this.
Also, if you notice a problem with a request, a reading or any other post, please do not respond to it yourself, but use the REPORT AS INAPPROPRIATE POST link on the left hand side of the post: the first available mod or admin will review the post and deal with your query.

We really appreciate all the hard work, time and effort that goes into giving readings and would like to say a huge thank-you to everyone that offers their time and energy in this way: THANK YOU ALL!

Posts: 175 · Posted: Sat Jan 16, 2010 5:33 pm

It looks good to me and makes sense.

Posts: 987 · Posted: Sat Jan 16, 2010 7:03 pm

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One reading every 3 months or so is considered more than enough, since each reading will usually cover at least that long

3 months is a long time and will seriously cut down on repeats, it may also be very hard to check if you have to trawl back through 3 months worth of requests to see if someone has posted. Also most readings do not cover the future so situations can change and I usually say no more than one reading a month.

Is it me or does the English on this now seem overly long and complicated? Will anyone bother to read it all? Maybe snappier short bullet points in bold might be clearer? With a short explanation why after it?
At the top it says one reading every 3 months then lower down one every month or 6 months or once a lifetime. Every six months or once a lifetime I would imagine relates to Akashic readings not Tarot because of the different nature of the information. I would suggest a clearer once a month reading? Is it still up to the readers? if so then far easier to montior once a month, I have spent ages looking to see if a member has had a reading sometimes.

Cassie x

Posts: 947 · Posted: Sat Jan 16, 2010 11:04 pm

Cascade of Light wrote:

3 months is a long time and will seriously cut down on repeats, it may also be very hard to check if you have to trawl back through 3 months worth of requests to see if someone has posted. Also most readings do not cover the future so situations can change and I usually say no more than one reading a month.

It's good to see these questions now that the original guidelines are still up. If you compare them, you will see I have left the periods mentioned just as they were in Gem's stickies. 3 months is what was always posted for seekers: did it really cut on repeats? isn't that the point?

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At the top it says one reading every 3 months then lower down one every month or 6 months or once a lifetime. Every six months or once a lifetime I would imagine relates to Akashic readings not Tarot because of the different nature of the information. I would suggest a clearer once a month reading? Is it still up to the readers? if so then far easier to monitor once a month, I have spent ages looking to see if a member has had a reading sometimes.

The top are the seekers guidelines, and only 3 months are mentioned.
The reader's guidelines 'recommend' not to give more than one a month, so it leaves it up to the reader. 6 months and a lifetime are just examples: should we delete them for clarity? I know nothing about Akashic readings, but I do know of some Tarot spreads that aren't given more than once a year, like the Tree of Life.

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Is it me or does the English on this now seem overly long and complicated? Will anyone bother to read it all? Maybe snappier short bullet points in bold might be clearer? With a short explanation why after it?

Cassie x

You may be right, since English is not my first language. You are very welcome to post a snappier version: I imagine you don't have a language problem.
However, I believe Gem was also an English speaker, and I don't see these new posts being any longer than the previous ones. If anything, the reader's guidelines are a bit shorter now.
It was my initial intention to make it all shorter and to the point, but then we had to include all POVs we have been discussing, explanations included. That is why I used the red bits, for those who prefer not to read so much.
As to whether anyone will bother reading them at all, I guess they will be read by as many people as the previous ones. Which is to say, not nearly enough. But the problem is most never bother clicking on the stickies at all, so length is probably not an issue.

This poll will be up for a week, so I expect others to comment on the changes you propose: if we all agree to just mention a one month period in both guidelines, then so be it.
And I am sure it gives you enough time to write a shorter, understandable version of all points, if you like. I'm afraid this is as short as I can make it myself, and I really have tried. But I cannot leave out anything we agreed to include.

I will await opinions on this

Posts: 987 · Posted: Sat Jan 16, 2010 11:34 pm

Pirbid I am sorry if you have taken my words the wrong way, I have read the guidelines many times and have never seen any three month guideline? I still feel it is too long. Also the guidelines seem to have been read thousands of times, why are they now being changed?

Cassie x