I know there was an offer for Gem to read some tarot readings but the board went haywire and lost some threads.  I took it as a "sign."  No big deal.  

At the same time, I did this spread for myself, regarding marriage.

I asked, in a sort of wishywashy way, if I was going to marry someone in particular but did not mention his name.

This was my 3card result for reading 1.

1.  Judgement
2.  Six of Wands
3.  Death

The Chariot also jumped out, but I can't say why.

I know death doesn't necessarily mean DEATH, but one of my books said that indicates marriage and birth.  A death to the life before, a rebirth with someone new or a new relationship.  

On the other hand, another book said that my life would be me loving someone without them loving me.  (I don't want to waste time on that.  That is a nightmare to me.)

Being a bit freaked out, I asked again and got even more freaked out.  

I asked a one card, yes/no question.  
Will I marry ************? [used his real name instead of "him"]
I chanted the question many times while gazing into the flames of a pink candle.  This is the one and only card that I picked.  

Ten of Cups.

I do have my books, but insight from anyone who doesn't have to consult books everytime they do a reading would help me understand this.  

I know what Ten of Cups means.  Just doesn't make sense.  


Anyone have any insight?    It would be most greatly appreciated.  


Thanks so much for reading this!  

PS  There were no reversal cards

How can you not understand the Ten of Cups in relation to your question?  I would be over the moon with such a positive sign, A happy family, ten full cups of pure joy. But the question now is how to make sure that it all happens as you wish

It's a simple as that?  Truly?   I desperately wish that it were so easy.  I want exactly what it says only it seems "impossible".  

I do seriously want to be happy.  Just seems impossible.  

If it is the truth...trust me...I AM over the MOON!  & utterly shocked.

Thanks for the answer by the way, Lady of Avalon.  

I was concerned about the Death card until I realized it signifies marriages and births (according to my books).  

Indeed, how do I make it HAPPPEN?

Hi, I don’t normally participate in reads online but your spread just jumped out at me, I don’t want to step on anyone’s toes  but I would like to give you some insight as to your reading.

Quote; I asked, in a sort of wishy-washy way, if I was going to marry someone in particular but did not mention his name.

This was my 3 card result for reading 1.

1. Judgement
2. Six of Wands
3. Death

The Chariot also jumped out, but I can't say why.

1. Judgement; The message this card is giving is to look into yourself and make sure that what your going after is real what you want, listen to your intuitive voice and if you have doubts! Address them before you go on
2. Six of Wands; If you don’t get cold feet, you will succeed in getting what you want although effort on your part will have to be made and sometimes this can be scary as well as exciting  
3. Death; It is important to remember that change is sometimes not excepted easily could there be some parts of your life as it is now that you don’t want to change?

Quote; The Chariot also jumped out, but I can't say why.
The Chariot; Keep focused on what it is that you want to achieve and don’t let your emotions get in the way of making the right decision  

As Lady of Avalon as already replied to your question on the ten of Cups I wont add to it
                Blessings Decia

I have never heard the Death card related to marriage? Rebirth yes, but also not birth? Where did youget that from? Which deck/book etc?  However it is unstopping and there is no way out of the situation, whatever that is, time will roll on and the end is part of the beginning of something else.



Xia :o)