This is a very good question, and being new to the Tarot myself, one I have asked myself often. Honestly I can't give you an answer. I have many friends who use the Tarot professionally and for personal use and a few of them told me that when a I go to buy a deck to get the one that jumps out to at me, that really sticks out and speaks to.
Well on that advice I headed to Barnes and Nobles and returned with 6 decks hahaha. I guess with my love for art many of them spoke to me lol. And although all of them told me as a beginner I should get the Rider-Waite I failed to listen and am now kickin myself in the behind lol.
I will get the Rider-Wait as informed but am still interested on everyone's response to the question that was posted at the start of this thread. Many of my friends use many decks for different readings in their arsenals and they all tell me I will find the ones for me, and I trust that they will in time but it is still a great learning experience to hear others experiences on how they came to find their decks and the experiences they have had. So please more responses for our curious minds.
~~ Filtereyez :P