No one is asking you to live without love... you should love yourself..  make every day an expression of the love you have for your friends, your family, the new day we have all been given.... the sun and the sky if you really don't feel you have love in your life... but l would say this..... the most attractive people out there are in love with themselves and with life... and they are emotionally independent... if you find someone you can't expect them and their love to fill a gap.... you can't depend on your partner for your happiness or for your feelings of love... you need to put your own happiness in place and then you can share it with somebody else's... and then everyone is a winner with love all over the shop!!  I have been in a couple all of my adult life and it's just as complicated as being single... it's a challenge and brings a whole host of issues to deal with. I wish you nothing but hapiness .... good luck  xx

Great words ec!!

I must agree with everyone but especially Valentine.
I dont think theres much i can add to this post, as its all already been said lol.