
When you have spent a few years reading, you will probably have a notebook where you write down those meanings that you find strikingly good for a certain card. I have done so, and keep refining my list of card meanings as I learn more about them. My meanings come from the myriad books on Tarot I have read through the years (specially those I had on loan) and also from those meanings that come spontaneously to mind when reading intuitively for different people. Each card seems to adapt beautifully to each situation once you have the hang of intuitive reading.
I think that books help a lot when you still have not learnt your deck by heart (by that I mean that if someone says "7 of Cups", you can instantly see the card image in your mind without looking for it in the deck). Once you have, meanings come to you for each card together with the image of it, even new meanings associated to the particular reading you may be doing.
Once you have reached that stage, you will probably ignore all books, since it gets tedious searching for meanings, specially when reading for others. But it is still useful to go back to them and keep adding to them once in a while, because I find I tend to assign certain meanings strongly to a card and forget others that might apply on less frequent situations. So browsing through them with the deck at hand, or simply doing a reading for myself looking up each meaning can be sometimes quite refreshing. I dislike getting stuck with certain meanings.
In case you are interested, Gem runs a course on intuitive Tarot reading that is easy to follow, free and fun. Many of us have taken it and it is usually running in the Mystic Academy forum, if you would like to take a look.
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