Hallo!
I've brought up this subject again because of something that has been bothering me since I first read this thread.
I use a significator when time allows because I find that showing the querent a display of all 16 court cards and then having them pick one that they feel represents either themselves or the person they want to ask about, gives the reading a more interactive feel and helps the querent focus on the matter.
But then I get worried that I'm stopping that card from naturally popping up in the spread. So yesterday, while reading for a friend, I made her pick up her courtc. in the usual fashion, made a mental note of it and then shuffled it right back in with the rest. I was curious to see if it would come up by itself and... it did! in 3 out of 3 different readings, too (we picked 3 different courts because each reading referred to a different person, but each came up in its own reading). But with the added information of coming up in different positions and sometimes upright, some reversed.
I found the experience very eyeopening, so I think this is the way I'll use significators from now on. How does it feel to you?
