The Tower is always terrible for me, more so because it always seems to be accurate, lol. I'm a little more tired of the Tower than usual, too, because I got it (multiple times) last week and then had a ridiculous fight with my boyfriend. Not sure how it will be resolved, either. I realize upheavel is necessary, but I never really embrace that energy coming into my life. I've done further readings and now everything is coming up future positive (two cups, World, nine cups). Hopefully those will be as accurate as the Tower card.
The Devil is pretty awful, too. In my case, I see it a lot representing chemical addictions. Though I did read that when surrounded by happy, love cards, the Devil can represent an unshakable bond. I don't find the Devil's negative aspects to be as frightening as the Tower, though, because the Devil represents things that we can change ourselves.

Hey, Sunset, I realize you must be online right now. That 's great!

Mmm... so glad your fight turned out right in the end. You are certainly getting nice Cups now.

I am not so sure if addictions are that easy to change. One thing I am pretty sure of: I would probably need the Tower to get rid of them!  

I hope to see you in the reading exchange thread, if you are interested. Cheers!  

I hope so! It hasn't been resolved yet, but I did a couple readings on it. I did one for past present future, just the past few days and the future couple days. Past- five wands (uh-huh). Present- four pentacles (true true). Future was World (fingers crossed).

Phew- you said it! I've been lucky not to have a substance abuse problem, but I've seen enough to last a lifetime in my loved ones. Never fun, never pretty.

Cool! Sounds good- I just found this site and have been exploring for a couple days. Everyone seems very nice, and I think it's awesome that we can all do readings for each other!

1. COULD - This is what you are physically, mentally, and emotionally capable of even if you do not realize the potential
2. WOULD - What you most likely will do based on your beliefs, attitudes, and past behaviors.
3. SHOULD - What others expect of you or social norms developed by others' opinions. This may reflect what you need to do regardless of what abilities you think you have or don't have.

I'm obsessed (I must say) because I have to draw 3 cards for each position. A better reader could do it with one card in each position I am sure.  

Tonight for the first time I am trying this spread:

Where
When
How

For questions concerning an event, a promotion, an encounter, a graduation, a meeting, a reunion, etc.

For instance, what should "Barbie" know about the next man she will meet for a relationship?
where: knight of wands (in a place where she doesnt usually go... she need to get out more to meet him. An event about something she am passionate and excited about.
when: 9 of cups . In 9 (months, years, days, weeks?).....
how: queen of cups.. A friend who is concerned about her emotional being will introduce them.