Hi "EC"
I like your question! This seems to be a big issue in the "Tarot" world so I hope lots of people post!
I'm a beginner and have decided not to "panic" when a reversed card comes up. I think reversed cards may definitely give us more information. (about energy that's "blocked", what's passing away or not being "expressed" for example).
The choice of deck must be a pretty important factor here, right? When we feel uncomfortable about reversals, we can certainly find other options - like using decks that don't have "reversals" or have a different approach to them. (like the Mother Peace Tarot (round cards that talk about cycles) or the Da Vinci Tarot (doesn't use "reversals" but offers some "cautions").
Lots of light back to you!
Weezer