Yes, RoseRed, it is also my case, as I believe I wrote a few months ago elsewhere in the forum. The Tower keeps turning up for me till it has become a trusted friend. It used to come up specially in times of big change -I moved countries 4 times and now live back in my own but on an island a thousand miles away from my family town-. But not only that: I spent ten years living at the top of a tower and have worked in one for the last 12, nearly.

But really, I believe the Tower really is me, with my fiery temper and my tendency to "blow my top" so easily. So I just use the decks where the Tower looks prettiest, like the Ancestral Path's, for example  

The cards are such beautiful art works. I do not at this time have a scariest card. They all have positive aspects too.

i've always disliked the tower because every time it shows up something does come undone...either a relationship or losing my appt job or car. it has never brought me a good sign unless inverted

I picked the Tower Card as the scariest because it is a fortellance that I am going to go through a hugh change and I am not going to like it. The last time I picked it my husband died and I lost everything ie: my house, my credit, my livelihood, my business. However, I have also learn so, so much that college couldn't teach me. I had become complacent and ungrateful in life. I had become fat with riches and not helping the world with anything better. Yes, it hurts to go through surgery and healing.

I see when I first wrote on this thread I did not really give my scariest card    I agree with those who dislike the Hyerophant because I associate it with stagnant morals and constricting rules, while I like to explore new paths, when possible.

But I believe the Devil is the scariest card for me: it usually calls my attention to those things I most dislike about myself and would love to keep forever hidden from the world -trying to change them seems like too much of a chore, probably   -, specially those habits that tend to control me, and not the other way around. I hate being a slave to myself!