Thank you for your reply.
What you said makes very much sense to me.
We live in my mother-n-laws house. We had purchased it from her a few months before her death. Which was 12 years ago. She would bake all the time. And I have been told that she is doing the same things over there that she had done here and that this person see's her baking. So with your comment I can feel better about the cookies moving because of my mother-n-law. And not just jumping to the conclusion that oh well that was just Pat (mother-n-law), when it could have been something or someone else. I was a little concerned that the last cookie being turned upside down may have meant something.
For some reason it seems Pat (my mother-n-law), and I have a close relationship even though I did not know her for very long. I know she has been here around the house at different times since her death. The afternoon she died I was in the kitchen when I heard Pat pull into the driveway and I looked at the clock it was 5:20 pm, the time of her accident which I found out later on. Pat was not in our driveway to my amazment and I went about my chores. Later that night we found out about her death. Then it all made sense. But I remember looking back and thinking why me? Why did I hear her pull in our driveway? She has children. Why did she reach out to me? For a while afterwards I felt bad because of the thought that entered my mind when I heard Pat pull into our drive. It was oh darn Pat's here and I have so much I am dealing with right now. I felt bad for thinking those thoughts. It wasn't that I did not want to see her or appreciate her visit. I was just busy. I can speak of those thoughts now to where I would'nt have mentioned them before because I felt so bad for thinking those things. I don't think Pat would hold those thoughts against me. She knew what it was like to have a home, kids, husband and responsibilitys. I think about her quit often.
