Okay I wasn't going to post the second thing that happened because I figured people would think I was making it up or was nuts.  My mom said I should go ahead and post it.  After our third wierd experieince I decided to post.  
2nd thing that happened is about a hamburger that I put in the microwave for my husband.  He has been spending a lot of time in the fields. Hubby forgot about the burger once he was home so when I got up in the morning  to fix my hubby's breakfast I opened the microwave and there sat the burger.  Being agravated that he had forgotten about it and that it was such a waste I thought oh well and sat it on the kitchen island.  I turned back around doing my thing and a minute or less I turned back and my eyes went right to the hamburger.  There was a bite out of it.  I kinda laughed and thought no, no way!!!  But I had seen it with my own eyes and it had only been a min. or less since I had set it on the island.  No one else was up.  I had to leave and did not have time to do anything with the burger.  When I returned home my son went into the kitchen before me and said mom another bite is gone.  Sure enough opposite of the first bite was another bite.
Tonight as my hubby and I were in the office with the door shut which goes to the family room.  And my step son sat and watcehd tv and ate ceral.    I could barely hear a song on the tv but as the seconds went on the tv got louder and louder.  Loud enough to where it was really bothering me.  I didn't want to say anything to step son.  My husband got up opened the door and yelled would you please turn that down.  That's how loud it was he had to yell.  And then hubby said well there is no one in there.  Step son had cleaned up his mess but left the tv on when he left the room. No one else was in the room not even the dog. Hubby turned the tv off.
We have been having some stressful issues going on but not really any more than we have had in the past.  I have also been having some health issues.
Thank you for any input

It sounds like a house cleaning is in order.  While the spirit may not be anything more than mildly annoying, the fact is that life is progressive.  And this is not progressive when spirit is stuck around a particular home or family.

You would seem to be the energy around which this happens.  Although perhaps others in the house could do with some grounding and protection in the case of actually trying to release the spirit to move on.  

When you sense the spirit is there (when he took the first bite of the hamburger would have been a good time) sit quiet and tell him/her they are dead and must move into the light.  Call on angels to come and take them on to where they need to be at the same time as your efforts at talking to them.  It is important to tell them to leave your space as you claim it for you and your family, but at the same time to turn around and go into the light of their own progression.

I hate to think of someone being stuck.  But I don't really look at it that way.  I feel like it is more of just a visit.  But then what do I know!!  My mother said basically the same as you did.  She suggested I get the house cleaned.  Mom had also mentioned about teens and something about how they can do stuff and not know it.  I forgot what she called it.  Also, wonder if maybe it has to do with my health.  It has been interesting.  Thanks for your post!!!

When spirit has gone to the light, they come back and communicate to us in a more gentle and loving manner.  If it is disturbances in the house in any way, it is stuck spirit that has not gone into the light as yet.  

There are many reasons to be stuck - mostly a lack of understanding of their present condition.  Do not hold any spirit stuck that can find progression.

Teens are inclined to produce telekinesis in making things move around like a more poltergeist type of activity. It uses a lot of psychic energies which seem to be connected to teens and their physical changes.

When we have ill health is a time we are more open and our energies of psychic sensitivities can open without a conscious thought.  But ill health also takes our mind away from conscious controls as well.  So be careful to be grounded and protected at this time.

Thank you spiritalk for explaining.  It makes sense  to me and I plan on sharing the information with my mom. Grateful, Laura