Many believe that our (anyones) beliefs are what we should live by and some say its our lives that make up our beliefs. How does anyone no what to believe in there is so much out there it can send one spinning..

Hello there! I like this question a lot actually. When questioning what to believe, look inside yourself. What do you *feel* to be true? Sure anyone can read up on ideas of life that have been passed down by individual people, but we all have our own individual truth.

Just explore all the various ideas without worrying too much about having a "set" grid of beliefs. Whatever resonates with your heart, is your truth. And then you will indeed find that what you believe is a blueprint for how you will live your life. The amazing thing about life is that it is malleable, we can shape it and make whatever we want out of it, when starting with the way we look at it.

Keep learning.  There are common threads through the various disciplines and philosophies out there.  There are also unwritten truths you will encounter.  Be patient and most of all learn how to listen.  (I'm still learning this myself!)

thank you both, I guess I need to follow what feelings I have for my belief system and not be pressured by others..

Follow what is deep in your heart that you know to be true.
Love and Light to you.