| spiritalk wrote: |
That was very interesting and I found some answers in it.
I want to share an experience...I have experienced 2 house fires in my life...one when I was 2 and needed to be rescued by others and another as an adult. When I am in churches that burn candles, my throat closes and I can't sing and my nose gets all stuffed up....just like allergy symptoms. Interesting....emotional charged....of course! |
That's very interesting, but I want to point out that a lot of people have "allergic" reactions to the candles/incense burned in churches/temples. I used to sing in a choir and half way through I'd get so overwhelmed by the heat and incense I'd almost faint. Sometimes get sick to my stomach. My choir director explained that it happens to a lot of people, not just singers... it's a common but not widely thought about allergy, like cigarette smoke (which I am also allergic to).
Now I could analyze the possible psychological triggers:
Church: could be blamed on my mother's pressure to worship a certain way (not Catholic) and my being forced to go to Catholic school by my father's side. I never felt I belonged there anyway. My allergy could have been to Catholicism in general ...
Cigarette smoke: I knew it was very unhealthy even at a very young age. My father smoked and every time I got a whiff my throat felt dry and I got a headache. Only with Marlboro Reds and one other brand I can't remember. Ever since, if I smell those brands, my symptoms start... Newports, menthol brands, etc. don't bother me at all (unless I inhale a lot ). Doctors say there's just something in the "reds" I am allergic to (as , they have found, many other people to be). My allergy could be to the idea of smoking... or fear of my father's health diminishing and losing him, which has always been my biggest fear.
But really who can say? I am allergic to wool .... I have no possible psychological reason for that... found out the hard way one Christmas when I got a new sweater, put it on and broke out in a rash. I didn't know it was wool until we analyzed the tag to find out why.
I think that some (maybe most) things can be "mind over matter". Maybe everything can be, but there are those that are just too difficult for most people to control. No matter how much I "want" to wear wool, it will always itch. Maybe I can "block out" the sensation so I don't FEEL it, but the skin irritation is still occuring.
Hope that made sense and I didn't ramble too much. Great topic! I just don't believe those "reasons" to be exclusive, though I'm sure they are sometimes the case.