Are you sure we  did not date the same person? LOL!!
Yep that sounds like my ex husaband and he won't let go either!!
What's the deal with that?

oh mine let go....he cheated on me a couple times and I found out...I finally just walked away...It was weird because I didn't shed a tear or get upset or anything after 2.5 yrs together...we just stopped contacting each other...I didn't trust him anymore...he called me once a few months later to do dinner...so I did (not sure why)...as we were leaving his office...he played an answering machine message...there was some woman on it that sounded pretty personal (as in they were dating or something)...Dinner was fine...afterwards has some extremely HOT HOT HOT goodbye sex....and never saw him again.  Other then his engagement and wedding notice in the paper a few years later.

We were both scorpio's....very stubborn...he was 7 yrs older then me (I was only 20 when I started dating him) and so he won in the dominance...and I backed down....so for 2.5 yrs I was told what to wear, what to eat, how to talk, what to say, when I could see my family or friends, how I needed to plan my future, can't get fat, can't get mouthy, need to do hair a particular way, need to enjoy particular hobbies...I was never physcially abused...but I would definately say I was brainwashed...I watched him cover for his friends that cheated on their spouses and significant others for years....and when I got proof he did it too...and he would look me in the eye and said he didn't and look convincing...I knew I couldn't do it anymore.  He broke down some of the powerful scorpio woman in me, but I had still enough of it to just walk away and feel nothing...

You can tell me what to wear and what to do....but don't break my trust....

WOW. that sounds like a very intense relationship. I'm sorry to hear that you went through that!
My relationship with the scorpio man I thought ended 7years ago and then two months ago he popped up out of nowhere.  Now he's a thorn in my side. Not sure what he really wants. He says he is in love with this other woman two thousand miles away but he is still text messaging me. Yes we did the lets hook up thing and it was pretty HOT! But that was almost three weeks ago.
He's so not honest about his feelings....  One day he will say that he wants to be friends and the next day he will be swearing at me. It's almost if I do not like his mood all I need to do is wait ten minutes and it will change.
Is this indesiveness a part of the Scorpio trait?
Should I tell this other chick about him?

When Scorpios are unsure...they can flitter back and forth in their emotions...it is a battle of "to be vulnerable or not".  Scorpio's hate to be vulnerable.  Kind of an all or nothing attitude.  I am guilty of it, I can run hot one minute and cold and uninterested the next.  

I would just stay out of the business with the other chick unless you want his wrath if he finds out.   Just avoid if you are not interested...and eventually he will just disappear.

When Scorpios are unsure...they can flitter back and forth in their emotions...it is a battle of "to be vulnerable or not".  Scorpio's hate to be vulnerable.  Kind of an all or nothing attitude.  I am guilty of it, I can run hot one minute and cold and uninterested the next.  

I would just stay out of the business with the other chick unless you want his wrath if he finds out.   Just avoid if you are not interested...and eventually he will just disappear.