I wanna know if a person can really be psychic of not?SO please if u do have psychic abilities then enlighten me on how to tap into my natural Psychic

There are many ways one can tap into, and even enhance, their natural psychic abilities.
I went to a card/tarot and aura reader who was willing to teach me a few ways to channel my abilities and enhance them (make them more powerful and accessable to me on a whim). It worked very well.
Others read how-to books and still others figure it out for themselves.
Please note that not ALL scorpios are able to use their psychic abilities. Unfortunately, some scorpios are "duds" in that area.
I was fortunate to have come from a long line of "sensative" people and some with the understanding and use of "witchcraft" and/or "magic".
Whichever way you choose to learn, remember this: it takes a lot of hard work and concentration (for most) to do the smallest "psychic" things. Don't rush yourself and don't be disappointed if you don't get it "right" the first time or all the time. Keep at it and have fun with it. Just don't use it for harm.

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There have been some very clear psychic moments through out my life...but as I got older and started having children, raising a family - they seemed to fade - how can I bring that part of my sight back?  
I get the feeling there are things I should be paying attention to - but...its like my antennea isn't all the way up...make sense??

I heard meditation will tap into your psychic side.  I'm planning on doing that and doing more tarot readings more.