tarottart,
I know what you mean when you cannot connect with one particular card. I have had my fair share of such cards within the swords but gradually am warming up to them.
Glad to see that I am not the only one.

I have been studying the Rider Waite Tarot for almost 15 years, since I was given my first deck.  However, I still have to use the booklet to help me understand what my spread means.  Even though I have the book's meanings, I don't always agree with the meaning.  I am interested in becoming more learned in how to interpret the cards.  I never really understood about the reverse of the cards.  I hoping to find some clarification within this site.  I wasn't expecting this at all.  I was just looking for a site to help me do my spread and read it, but this is a far cry better than I expected.  Anyone with suggestions, please advise.

What spread are you using?
if you dont like reversals, I would say dont use them unless by some twist, you do get one.
I usually look at reversals as same meaning, but of a lesser degree.....

Judgement to me is all about looking back over the past and assessing what has been happening, how its been happening and why its happened. It should be a time of healing and forgiving the past and moving on. It's a bit like saying you're reading a book, about to end one chapter and start another, OR put that book down and pick up another book. Very much a 'stick or twist'

It can suggest a parting of the waves OR being given one more chance to put matters right. Can suggest divorce on way or legal matters ok...

An just event in sight that will take you out of the dead, free you, do you justice. But where were you? Happy outcome.