Hi Amethyst-Jen,
And welcome to mystic board.
I'm not sure if the last paragraph you wrote was in relation to what I had written, so I'll clarify what I had written previously to clear up any misunderstandings just in case.
Although I personally believe in reincarnation, I do not believe that God whom I believe in intended for me to suffer for previous lifetimes I cannot remember for any injustices I may have been a party to. What I do believe in, is evolving and closer to I guess what I would call perfection. That perfection of course is my own perception just as everyone else has theirs; which would include making the most of this lifetime, doing the best I can and then some, rising above instead of stooping below other peoples levels, being aware and compassionate, lending a helping hand etc... Much along the lines of what Mango Mom describes, although what she expresses is more fluid and eloquent.
If you question anything, whether it be me or what anyone else states, that's good!! It's good to take in all the facts, all of the opinions, even some of the far out things that don't add up and arrive at your own conclusions and you have every right to change your mind down the road too ;) When you do that, then you know it's your own opinion, it belongs to you and not someone else's being shoved down your throat.
Enjoy yourself here.. there are so many pages and topics to read it's mind boggling. And it's a great group of people... but don't let them know I said that ;)
Be well and be safe,
Angelique