There was a guy, a gemini, who I was an aquaintance to.  I felt a very strong connection between us though we didn't know each other very well. He asked me out and I turned him down. I had just ended a long, horrible relationship and was not ready to start a new one at the time. The problem was that I was so crazy about this guy that anytime he would speak to me I would get really nervous. Instead of saying something like, " maybe some other time." or "why don't you give me your number?"  I flat out said, "no." At that moment I couldn't get any other words out. We seen each other almost on a daily basis. I realize I gave him the impression that I wasn't interested in even the slightest way, but I was very interested. He moved away unexpectantly. I didn't even get to say goodbye. I planned on saying something to him, but always chickened out and then he moved. It has been months and I think of him often, and I have dreams of him often as well.  I regret not saying something. I feel awful with the impression I left him with. Will fate bring us back together or will I have to look his number up like a wierdo?

Thanks in advance

Jen,

first off i am sorry whats happened. second i think it would be better if you moved on, i mean that guy is gone and i can understand the feeling of parting without being able to say what you wanted too. but like someone famous said ... i dont remember who... the show must carry on.

just my 2 cents.

Abhishek

Jengirl -

The saying is if "If you love somebody, let them go, for if they return, they were always yours. And if they don't, they never were."

If he was meant to be with you, you will meet again I am sure of this and if not there is someone more suitable just waiting for you to come into their life.

Sophe