Sweet asked......
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| Why would you type the reading, that you are planning to provide me with only one finger ? |
And EoT answered.....
Because I am a self confessed one finger typist. I type all of my readings using that same right hand pointing finger, and your readings are therefore no exception to this rule.
I had never noticed that you had any significant problems with expressing your ideas and feelings in your requests, until you yourself brought up this subject. I have never had any problems which I can remember in understanding the point which you are attempting to make. Some things about you speak much louder to me than clumsy words ever could about what an intelligent and kind person you really are. Your inner light shines brightly for others to see, and draw strength and comfort from for themselves.
I am both deeply humbled and touched by the sheer depth and sincerity of your compliments. Actually I showed my wife this message so that she could see for herself how many people on Mystic Board are praying for her complete recovery, and in the process she had a good laugh along with you, instead of at your statement that "there are many reasons provided by your own self for others to fall in love with you".
While M agrees with you that I do have my good points and strengths (after all she did accept my marriage proposal all those years before), she countered this by saying that if only you lived with me 24/7, that you would not be so quick to place me on a pedestal from which I am likely to suffer a nasty fall at any second of the clock. In other words, just as with any other human being I am a complex mixture of strengths and weaknesses and good and not so good points. I am no better nor worse in any respect than the next person, but I do get a real positive emotional buzz or high from helping people using my intuitive gift.
But that is more than enough talking about us. This reading was always meant to be about you as one of our closest internet friends. Let us get back to helping you to the best of my ability to weather the storm which is raging in your life in many different areas at much the same time. Your reading on this occasion is focused almost exclusively on the theme of you increasingly becoming more SELF INDEPENDENT over time (and not simply in the usual financial or money sense of the meaning of the word independent).
No man or woman is an island to him or herself. To a varying degree no matter how old or confident or capable we become in our lifetime, we will always continue to to have to depend on individuals and organizations to provide support and specialized services and facilities in place of us being able to do all these things by ourselves. In this viewpoint the men who collect your trash or rubbish every week or fortnight are equally important to your family doctor in keeping you alive and healthy.
Many of the epidemics and pandemics of the most fatal and contagious diseases of the past have only been bought under control or avoided by greatly improved public health measures such as regular rubbish collection and not emptying the contents of one's chamber pot upon any unsuspecting passerby unfortunate enough to be walking under your bedroom window at the exact time that you rid yourself of your night dirt and excess body fluids. In one documented case, when all the doctors in that local area went on strike, the mortality rate DECREASED.
All of this and much more clearly demonstrates that complete self independence from everything and everyone else is only an ideal or illusion for each of us as individuals, or as social beings. Normally as we go through childhood we become more independent and therefore less dependent upon our parents and other significant people in our lives as time moves forwards.
As adults we continue to become more independent in some areas, while in others we remain dependent on others out of necessity. In our twilight years the general trend is for us to become less independent as our bodies and minds gradually slow down, whether or not disease is also present. Indeed one of our greatest fears is often that we will be placed by our advanced age, accident or illness in the helpless position of being totally dependent on other people and technology to keep us alive, instead of living which is something completely different.
Now I can almost completely understand (to completely understand I would have to be you) and am acutely sensitive to why after having lived a life that consists of "betrayal, dishonesty and cunningness" in its past and seen friends turning out to be enemies almost always" has ultimately led you to not trust anyone around you, but you have obviously realized that without some degree of trust being present, that you enjoying a loving relationship where each partner helps the other would be impossible.
There are definite financial and efficiency advantages to us being willing to give up some of our existing independence to other people, whether they be our lovers, other family members, friends or work colleagues in exchange for other benefits coming out of it which would not be practical or reachable if we had not surrendered some of our independence. Independence and dependence and working together as a united couple or work group or as friends working for the same positive cause each have an important role to ply in the overall balance. To become more independent in one area, we frequently need to at least temporarily become more dependent in another for the good of the couple or group.
In summary I would interpret this month's reading as highlighting or underlining the urgent need for you during the next six months and well beyond that to find a more comfortable balance between in some aspects becoming more independent, but in other aspects becoming more dependent on your partner, family member, friend or work colleague, without it automatically causing you to lose your self confidence and self respect along the way.
Temporarily surrendering some degree of your independence for the shared benefit of any type of relationship, combined with a reasonable level of trust and the positive consequences of you being willing to do this, is seen to your most important lesson between now and approximately early July of this Olympic year. How well or otherwise each of these relationships will progress during this period mainly depends on how well or quickly you absorb and apply this lesson to your remaining life challenges, each of which to some extent will require other people as well as yourself to contribute to the relationship in some way.
Increased financial independence is often only the icing on the cake, which in turn comes out of good money management and mutual trust and co-operation between two or more people working closely together. The missing ingredient in such a cake is frequently the unwillingness of one or the other partners to reach a mutually agreeable compromise (meet each other at least half way in your efforts to restore or maintain the peace of the relationship between you).
Loving regards,
EoT
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