Sweet,

No matter what the specific and cumulative pressures are for us to move forwards once again with our dreams and ambitions, it is equally important that we allow breathing space for our feelings to progressively come to the surface and be dealt with out in the open, instead of continuing to indefinitely bottle them up and run the real risk that they will emerge at the least convenient of times, and possibly as a result inflict significant and more likely to be permanent  emotional damage upon ourselves in the process.

In other words although you do not need my permission to vent your feelings concerning the negativity of your situation as you will (and this forum is a safe place to be able to do this knowing that you are amongst friends who will not think any lesser of you as a person for feeling discouraged and dispirited by the sheer immensity of the challenges which you are facing), please feel free to do this on the days when those accumulating inner pressures eventually reach a potentially explosive level.

Life was never meant to be easy, but why on the other hand does it have to be this difficult for so many good and decent people such as yourself, who are trying their very best with whatever inner and outer resources their Creator has given to them during their current lifetime. Sometimes I feel and I am sure that you do as well, that we are drowning in a sea of negativity, and that we therefore on the especially rainy days need someone to throw us a life jacket, before it is too late and we go under for the final countdown.

Thank you sincerely for offering me the great privilege of being able to number you amongst my dearest friends, and for allowing me to share this relatively small part of your long and winding soul journey through life with you. You will always have my admiration and respect for what you have been able to accomplish in your life, in spite of all this negativity so often getting in your way.

From one of your not so secret admirers,

EoT  

thank you dear EOT for being patient with me...your words always fill me with hope during hard times ..thank you so very much