Hello MangoMom,

I am very glad to see you back on Mysticboard after such along time. I would very much like a reading from you if possible.

-I would like to know when I will be settling down in my life? I feel I need a partner who will be with me in light and dark. I am not sure if I have already met him or I will meet him later in life. I am still single and would like to have some love in my life.

-I do not feel satisfied with my career. I do not feel motivated and happy in my current situation. At soul level it's not satisfying. i am not able to find the right path to be taken. It's getting depressing for me.

-Recently I had a fall out with my boss. I really don't understand why he acted so rudely and cold towards me when I casually went to talk to him. He is many time cold to me for no apparent reason compared to others. But in the background he used to protect him and be careful for others not to hurt me. I wanted to know if things will improve for us as I felt really hurt by his confusing behavior. He tried to ease things by joking to me indirectly but directly he will never talk to me. I respect him alot but I am not able to forgive him.


I would like to know what the record keeper has to say to me.

I thank you very much for taking your time for me.

Light of love,

D

Dhav, as much as I am honored that you have requested a reading from me, you recently received an eye opening reading from EOT.  You have much work to do on that and it is not a good time for you to receive an additional reading.  My thoughts are that once you have completed the steps and suggestions from our Beloved EOT I think you will be able to see the path you should take.  

Many blessings and wishing you a year of riches and blessings beyond your dreams.

Mangomom

hello MangoMom,

I only wanted some specific answers from the records to some questions. I completely understand what you meant. I will wait fro later as you said.

Thank you and a happy new year,

Lights of love,

D

Dear MangoMum,




I see no problems whatsoever with our good friend Dhav being given a reading by you at at any time of your own choosing, as the last one which I gave her was was on November 23rd with the request being posted on the previous day (see the above direct links).

This means that under the forum rules and guidelines she once again became eligible to post her next request on December 22nd 2011 (a minimum of one month should be left between requests).

What I feel has added to all of this confusion about the rules possibly not being obeyed is that the new request was not posted under a separate thread, as is the accepted practice on this forum.

Perhaps there is a valuable lesson to be learned in what has happened here for all our valued members, NOT to post chain requests in the future.

Each new request should be posted as a new topic/thread, and NEVER (Dhav was not guilty of doing this) added to another members conversation, which is regarded as a serious lack of good manners or as being especially bad netiquette.

Please therefore go ahead with the reading with my approval (not that you really need it) and blessing, if you feel able to access anything from the Akashic Records which you believe could help this sweet lovely girl.

New Year Blessings to the both of you,

EoT        

Dearest dhav,

With approval from EOT and from the RecordKeepers I have opened your records and will attempt to answer your specific questions. The first thing that came to me from them is that you have begun to depend on the readings from many areas of the MysticBoard, you may be missing out on a big part of your life in making your own choices without influences from the spiritual realm.  You gotta trust your instinct, why would you read the end chapter of a book before starting the story.  If you know the end, what fun is the story?  They are saying that you need to get out and live and experience life to know what you are here for.  Limit your readings to no more than 1 every 90 days unless there is a specific concern, usually time will take care of most concerns.



You are such a strong individual you tend to turn men away, you make a point to show them that you are just as smart and knowledgeable as them.  It is like you are in a contest with every man you meet.  You do not have to prove anything to the man that will love you for who you are, not how smart, how aggressive, how determined, he will love you for the female side of you, that beautiful smile, that unique laughter you have.  Your intelligence will be a plus, but not the thing that draws him to you.  You generally go at men the way you would a brother, to prove you could outsmart, outfight or out talk, that is not what draws a man to you.



Again, you are such an aggressive personality you feel stagnant in your current career, perhaps you have learned everything in the current position and it has become boring.  You can move up, but there are some additional educational barriers that you need to cross.  Specific training in that area, such as "negotiations", learning to use a little more diplomacy in your handling of situations.



Again, your aggressive nature is a part of your downfall with your relationship with the male community.  He is taking your actions a bit to heart in that perhaps you are trying to show you are smarter than him.  Most men will take offense if you continue to point out the negative things, find some positive points to address.  You are a very intelligent individual and are forgetting to consider the feelings of the other person when you talk with them.  Work on understanding how you say something and how the other person would feel if it were you.

Along with these words and the forgiveness prayer you will be able to see that the answers to your questions above are within you. Say the prayer for 12 days, and you will begin to see your attitude change and you will become a bit softer in your nature.

FORGIVENESS PRAYER
If there is anyone or anything that has hurt me in the past, knowingly or unknowingly, I forgive and release it.  If I have hurt anyone or anything in the past, knowingly or unknowingly I forgive and release it.  This I ask for the highest good of all concerned.

Blessings and hugs to you dhav, it is so humbling to have accessed the records of such a highly loved soul throughout the spiritual realm.

Mangomom