Hello MangoMom,

The record keepers said true about me. It's been on my mind as well for some time now. I am very aggressive especially to boys.I have also been thinking of calming myself as resolution this year. The prayer of forgiveness you have given me will help me a lot. It's difficult for me to show my gentle side to guys but it will not be the case for the one who will love me. As you have written I have always believed that someone will love me for who I am. I will not have to prove myself to him for loving me. nevertheless I need to be a little gentle with other guys.As for my boss I don't have much interaction with him personally. I do not behave with him as I behave with others of my rank. Maybe I have hurt him unknowingly that he behaves like this with me and it's vice versa. he is a human being afterall.

Thank you very much MangoMom. i will surely heed to your advice.

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