Hi I was wondering if I could please have a reading on my love life? I was wondering if (and possibly when) I'll see the man who is on my mind again... wondering I'll at least see him again or if he'll come back into my life again.

Thanks so much,
Alex (female)

Dear Alex,

My readings are generally thought to cover the period of approximately the next six months after your request was submitted. This is about as accurate as I can be with regards to predicting the exact time which something may happen

A YES answer to your question as to when you might be seeing him again would mean that it is based entirely upon this one reading felt to be likely to happen within the next six months. A NO answer to the same question would mean that it is felt to be unlikely to happen (but certainly not impossible), during the same period.

Readings deal with the probability of an event happening within a given period of time (any event which obeys the basic laws of the Universe is 100% possible), but because there are so many factors both known and unknown which could potentially affect the final outcome, any absolute predictions made through a reading are uncertain at best, and useless at worst.

This man from your past is on your mind again, but it is not clear how much in comparison he was on your mind all of those months or years before. It is also still to be established as to if you had an actual relationship with him before now, or how deep was the relationship which you enjoyed with each other way back then. Reading between the lines of your request, it is felt that to a large degree in both the past and present that 75% or more of what relationship you had then or have now exists only in your own mind and wishful thinking. There is a definite sense of unrequited or undeclared love for him coming to me out of what you wrote.

Now please do not misunderstand or be unnecessarily offended by what I just said. I am certainly NOT saying that you are only imagining that you have romantic feelings for him. To a certain extent your feelings about this guy are the product of pictures of him which your unconscious mind has painted, while you were dreaming or in a lightly relaxed waking state of consciousness. These images in your mind's eye will often tend to magnify or enhance your existing feelings or emotions concerning this man, but the feelings and emotions themselves are very real and quite intense about a man you presumably have had no further contact of any manner with, between then and now.

Also I am definitely not saying that there is anything in your reading which even mildly suggests that there would or would not be any future for a relationship with him if he is as interested in having a relationship with you, at least as much as you are hoping for.

Your focus or main theme card for this reading was the Nine of Wands (ironically abbreviated to NOW).

The number Nine card of any of the four Tarot suits is meant to represent the very end of an old phase or stage of your growth and development as both a spiritual and human being, hopefully leading to new challenges and beginnings for you roughly between now and late June of 2012 (6 months hence).

Specifically the Nine Of Wands is often called "the failure is not an option card". People with this card featuring in their reading will try to do anything which they are able to do whatever they have set out to or to help others as best they can, often by sacrificing their own equally important needs in the process. Failure is not an option at any cost, and the cost of what a NOW person does is measured in much more than money. The expense of their urgent need to feel needed to their own energy levels and sense of self confidence and self respect is often major.

I would therefore interpret the Nine of Wands in your love reading to mean that approaching this man with regards to beginning any type of love relationship with him is probably likely to be successful above the average level expected by chance alone (50%). There is however one important condition or prerequisite to this prediction.

And that vital but at present missing condition is that if you do not at the same time learn to love (value and respect) yourself more and do whatever you are reasonably able to get some of your other mainly emotional needs met with your family and friends, all of your efforts to attract this man to you as a prospective future partner could unfortunately come to little or nothing.

How can you ever expect someone to love and care for and value and respect you, if you are neither able nor willing to first learn to show greater love, care, value and respect (love) towards yourself? The beginning of a new phase of your life where increased self love towards yourself will eventually given patience and time lead to you being loved by this man.

Love, Light and Peace

EoT

So from what you can tell, all hope isn't lost? and there's a chance he will come back into my life?

Alex,

All hope of any future romantic relationship with him is definitely NOT lost, and there is EVERY reason for you to think that there is still a chance that he will eventually come back into your life.

If neither of these had been the case then there would be no useful purpose served in me offering you guidance through your reading with regards to what you could reasonably and practically do to increase the chance that he will consciously decide to come back to you at some point

Above all else your reading was concerned with just how far you might go in the way of sacrificing your other emotional needs, with the intent to artificially speed up the process.

The reading instead encourages you to learn to love (value and respect) yourself more, and by so doing naturally attract him back into your life, instead of making the common mistake of attempting to prematurely force the issue and potentially making the relationship less likely to happen at all.

Hoping that this posting typed by me on Christmas morning, clears up any remaining confusion and unnecessary worry about the message behind your love reading.

Take good care of yourself,

EoT  

Thanks, I appreciaite it. and Merry Christmas!