I want to know how my ex is feeling right now, especially about me. Does he still love me, and does some part of him still want to be with me. Will time heal wounds and will he find himself wanting to get back together in the future?

Sorry Princess,

I cannot give you this reading as your request is currently written, as for me to directly read whether he still loves you or whether some part of him still wants to be with you, or if he will ultimately find himself wanting to get back together with you, would require me to give you a third party reading, which I am not allowed to do according to the forum rules.

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Your other options as I see them are to either carefully reword your original question so that the reading is entirely about yourself and your relationship with this guy, or alternately to choose a completely different subject altogether, which in the light of how important it clearly is for you to know whether your relationship with him has any future I feel would not be satisfactory to either of us.  

Time does help to eventually heal most of our emotional wounds (although certainly not all of them), but time alone by itself is usually not enough. There is a common tendency among many men and women to move too quickly into the next relationship before the self healing process has even had an opportunity to get started. If you wait until the healing is complete, then you could be unknowingly missing out on meeting someone else who is both more capable of and willing to give you the deep and lasting love which I believe that you so richly deserve.

The optimum strategy in the long run for most of us is to find the best possible balance between looking for a better relationship with someone else, while at the same time beginning the inner emotional work which will be necessary if you are going to be able to take maximum advantage of any new relationship which might come along in the foreseeable future.

As with most things in this life, finding this elusive balance point this is always easier said than done, particularly when your heart is breaking or already broken. But in order to move forwards again into a more positive relationship there are unfortunately no easy shortcuts to healing our wounds. In many cases the person may also require professional guidance and support, in addition to their own ongoing efforts to help them self get through what is without doubt an extremely difficult journey back from apparent hopelessness and despair to renewed hope and a restored feeling of being loved and cared for by the Universe which will then gradually translate into a feeling of being attractive to and deserving of being loved by the right man for you.

What follows is only a suggested alternative question for me to base a reading upon. You are under no obligation to accept it.

Why is it so important to me that my ex out of all the other men who are currently available as my prospective future life partner should want to get back together with me in the future, with the intention to have a better relationship than the one which we had before we broke up? Why do I want him specifically, instead of any other man I could have in his place?

Does this help?

EoT

haha sure, we can make that my question  I'd just want to know if him and I will get back together I suppose...

Princess,

The question on which this reading is to be based is not only will the both of you get back together, but why do you especially want to get together with your ex in preference to another partner. After all, him being your ex means that you were once in a love relationship with him, but you are now for whatever reason(s) no longer a couple or together. It may be useful but not vital to know why it was that you eventually chose to go your own separate ways, and who of you if not both decided that enough was enough. If the issues which lead to your separation have not been neither partially nor completely resolved since then, they are only likely to come back to haunt you when you resume your earlier relationship with him. I also do not know whether or not you parted on reasonably peaceful terms, and are still best friends in spite of your many differences of opinion.

I sense that in some way or ways he has hurt your feelings, and yet you are thinking about going back to him, and by so doing risking him doing it to you all over again. Because I cannot read him directly using third party, I also cannot accurately or reliably predict exactly what he would do or not do if you went back to him. I realize in saying this that you may be currently feeling terribly disappointed in me as a psychic reader not to be able to make these predictions or answer your question (s), but would you have me tell you that the reading is giving me the information you wanted, when it really was not? Would you prefer my words to be comforting but lacking in any truth, OR honest and completely upfront about what I am reading about your future love life?

With due respect to your womanly feelings and the fact that you still clearly have romantic feelings for him, do you either need or deserve to be once again treated so badly as he has done to you previously in the past? Why put yourself through this ordeal for a second time, when the chances are that he has not changed or improved significantly in his attitudes to women since you called it a day? Why try to go backwards to the dark place you were in with him earlier, when you could instead move forwards into the light with another man whom you are it is felt still to meet in the future?

You are not expected to answer such deeply personal questions on a public forum. And even if you chose to, the answers are none of my business. These questions were simply the ones which kept repeatedly occurring to me during your reading. I am certainly not judging you as any lesser of a person if you do chose to go back to your ex, but I want you to consider carefully the possible long term consequences to your financial security and sense of self confidence and self respect, if history repeated itself and your relationship failed for a second or worse third time. Of course there is nothing in your reading that predicts that it must fail a second time, but on the other hand it must remain a possibility that it will not work out any better than it did before. Sorry if this sounds overly negative of me to be mentioning, but I do not want to create false or empty hope by deceiving you into believing something which is a lie.

In a strange sort of way, because you are more familiar with your ex's weaknesses and failings when compared to those of other men, there is a feeling of comfort in knowing exactly where you stand with him which you could not quickly or easily get with another man. Regardless of your ex rejecting the love which you so freely offered him, he represents for you a personal comfort zone which you are hesitant to move outside of for any reason which you feel is not a valid one.  Better the devil you know, than the devil you do not know?

My impressions for what you might feel they are worth to you are that during the next six months thought to be covered by this reading there is going to be very little chance of your ex either getting back together with you, or even wanting to get back together with you. If it is meant to happen further down the road then there will need to be serious changes and sacrifices made by both of you to give it an above average chance of succeeding second time around. At the same time I do not see any new men entering your life between now and early June 2012 (6 months) to replace your ex in your heart, although I would love to be proved wrong about what I am feeling is the likelihood of this happening anytime soon.

What I do see is a time of grieving for your significant loss, and a golden opportunity to recharge your spiritual batteries. What I see and hear is that this next six months of self healing will effectively set the theme of or basically determine what the following year should look like if nothing changes in the mean time.  Since change is the one of the few things which you can always be sure of in this life (change is a Universal constant), a year where nothing at all changes is impossible. No such thing exists. We ourselves are forever changed by our life experiences, or to be exact by how we respond to our life experiences.

One of your life experiences was your failed relationship with your ex. How will you respond to this experience? Will you allow your fears of taking more risks of being hurt all over again with another man drive you back into your ex's arms or influence, or will you instead view it as a lesson well learned but over? Mainly through your decision as to whether to stay inside your personal comfort zone with your ex or instead have the courage to move beyond it with another man, will your future during the next six months be re-molded and re-shaped into something you could never have imagined was possible leading up to Christmas 2011.

TTFN,

EoT  

alright thank you for the reading dear