i have just come out of a relationship april 2011 when will i have a relationship
my birth date is 29/5/1990 3pm london female and what date will it be.

I am genuinely sorry to hear that your previous relationship has failed in April of this year, but at the same time I feel that you have possibly misunderstood what these readings were meant to be about. Also since my readings are believed to apply to the period of approximately the next six months after your request was made, asking for any predictions including the exact date that you are likely to begin another relationship is beyond the ability of my inner guidance through which these readings come to deliver.

The main reason for me not being able to accurately and reliably predict what your future love life will be like is that effectively there is not yet a definite future to predict. In other words your future love life and your chances of beginning another relationship are neither predestined or set in stone. To a large extent what happens to you relationship wise between approximately now and the end of May 2012 (~6 months) is basically up to you to determine through your own efforts in getting out of the house on a regular basis and meeting people of a similar age group to your own, with some shared interest(s) on which to build first and friendship and secondly if everything goes as well as planned to the next step which you are seeking.

Although April was at least seven months ago, I sense that you are still in the process grieving for your significant loss, although if you were asked if you were fully over him I am sure that you would say that you are more than ready to put these things behind you, and to move on to someone more mature and responsible who can give you the deep and lasting type of love which I believe you so richly deserve.

Your reading is telling me that while it is not thought to be impossible that you will begin such a relationship before late May of next year (anything which obeys the laws of this Universe, of which human being only have a limited understanding is possible in theory), the probability that it will happen during that half year is unfortunately not significantly above the 50% level which would be expected purely by chance or random luck.

Rather than seeing this as a time for passion and a new relationship getting off to a flying start, the cards are saying to me (actually they are shouting) that this is more a time for self healing and for a tying up of loose emotional and perhaps also financial or money ends (consolidation). It is also regarded as a valuable opportunity for you to recharge your spiritual batteries and to care more about yourself for a change instead of only giving, giving and more giving.

You are such a warm, sensitive and generous with your affections young woman that immature men can sometimes take unfair advantage of you, because you tend to frequently wear your heart upon your sleeve where it is incredibly more vulnerable to being hurt all over again. Your feelings are so out in the open for men to plainly see, that it often works against you being able to form and maintain close relationships with the men whom are worthy of your love.

Not all men are immature, unreliable, unfaithful or only looking for a one night stand, but your negative experiences in the past with them may have implanted this unspoken belief in your unconscious mind, without you knowing that it was there. You do want this next relationship to begin as soon as possible, but a part of you wants to protect you from ever having your feelings hurt like that again. This understand hesitation to  put your heart out there in case it gets crushed one more time probably shows to men in your body language and your low self esteem.

A person who does not currently believe in or feel good enough about or within herself to make the necessary sacrifices which are often involved in beginning a new romance is not particularly attractive to the right type of man for you.

Please do not get me wrong about what your reading is suggesting. This condition is only of a temporary nature (you are NOT destined to be permanently single or unattached for the rest of your life). This is not happening to you either by accident or as a cruel form of punishment for something which you did or did not do in the past. This time of enforced slowing down and soul searching comes with the very best of intentions to heal you on many different levels (physical, mental, emotional and spiritual) simultaneously, and at the maximum possible safe speed and efficiency.

Not only is this period of consolidation and inner reflection going to do you a power of good in the way of self healing and boosting your self confidence and self respect over the coming months, but it is going to prepare or equip you well to be able to take maximum advantage of any romantic opportunities which WILL and NOT MAY present themselves during that specific time frame (of 6 months).

This will then automatically show to men in a completely different body language from the one which you show to them now, which will in turn naturally or magnetically attract a much better type of man to you as a result. In combination with getting out of your house and mixing with men with a similar age and some shared interests to your own, do whatever you are able to during this period to strengthen your belief in yourself as being lovable, but do not try forcing along the healing process according to your own restricted time schedule, or what was a valuable opportunity to better understand your own motives for always wanting to have a man in your life in order to feel good about yourself could be lost forever. Slowly but safely and surely is your reading's most wisely and helpful piece of friendly advice for you over the next six months.

There will be plenty of opportunities after that time has expired to reap the rewards of your patience and ongoing commitment to your spiritual growth ad development, to make you feel that it was all worth waiting for. It is probably already obvious to you that if you wait for a man who is perfect, according to what you mean by the word perfect, that you are very likely living on the wrong planet. But conversely there are no perfect women either.

We are all FHBs - Fallible Human Beings.

Show as much patience and compassion for yourself as you so freely give to others. Being able to forgive but never forget is not for the benefit of any other person than you. Your ex probably has no conception of how much he has hurt you, so why hurt yourself on top of it?

Constantly beating up on or punishing yourself for the "boys" not men who you have encountered so far not recognising how much they are missing out on by not being loved by a woman of such high intelligence and with an abundant supply of love to share such as yourself is not only counter-productive, but it is also calculated to destroy what little of your self confidence and self respect remains.

If or once that is allowed to happen, your reading does not give you a 50% chance of beginning a new relationship during the next 12 months. Or at least a relationship which is likely to satisfy your hopes for the future in the way of finally locating your less than perfect but still more than adequate for your needs future life partner.

Blessed be,

EoT