Hi long story short...we moved out here for the childrens education.....however since then my husband gets called in for training on a job.....then he works for a few weeks and then laid off.  This has happened 3 times.  On top of the fact that my job is sales ...things that should have come and signed (contract wise)...have not.  I am just so confused....this is very expensive where we live..however we have special learning kids...and this is the best area for them.......let me know if you can if this will get better.

javascript:emoticon('')honey, my answer is, only you can control your life, if you want your life be better it will be better, but if you take all the day with bad felings, and negative thinkingsjavascript:emoticon(''), it will be very bad, let the peace and the love enter in your life, take a time of the day for meditation, if you just do this all, continue, and remenber everything have an end .

A very wise answer from a young person, and in fact the only true one, even if we should wish to give solutions to all problems that comes before us.

Only we our self is capable to change our life....only we are able to evaluate our own abilities, and then try to find options where those abilities is needed, even if that result in moving.

I agree that we shall think on our children's best, but if we then destroy our economic foundation, quarrels and other negative impacts might be bigger then the benefits of staying, so I would suggest that a "family gathering" where all side of your problems is discussed is the best way to go.

If we don't talk about the problems, each one of us might go around with a fear, none will bother the other with it, and instead of solving the problem, we might increase it.

THIS, is not a direct answer to your READING REQUEST (Which should be done in a Reading forum) but more a general view, that point out that WE are the MOST IMPORTANT person in our own life, and WE must CREATE it by evaluate and grab opportunities... if not...then we are just like a boat without motor, or oars, which the wind (((OR FATE)) blow in a direction not controlled by us.