Hi EyeOfTiger,how are you?hope you're doing good by the way.I remember last two months i asked for a reading on my healing sessions and you gave me some good advice on it.I am already reaping benefits like heightened intuition and creativity.I would love to have a reading again on the insights on the progress of the sessions and where its taking me.Thanks.

Hello again Ziyad,

Now that the extra two months to complete the six which have passed since your last reading are over, I wanted to return to an important point which I felt was being made but was probably to a certain extent missed by you, amongst everything else.

This point was partly expressed in the following sentence, which I copied and pasted from your previous reading given in late June of this year.

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There is such a thing as one trying too hard, and not allowing yourself time and space to absorb the many subtle difficult to detect changes which are happening deep inside you as we speak, and this reading is adding a note of caution that you must continue to watch out that your expectations about what progress you can safely make in six months, but not exhaust your emotional and spiritual batteries along the way.

You yourself commented about this in your response.

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Makes a lot of sense of about rushing to heal.I used to spend all day trying to heal.That explains why it seemed delayed to me.Indeed,when you begin to get aware of the baggage inside you,you get impatient to release it.

Just like most things in life, you can become so focussed and obsessed with healing and releasing your stored up negative emotional baggage, that you can easily forget to get on with the rest of your life and in particular your close relationships with other significant people.

The reading also warned you that making all these changes and improvements within yourself in the process of your healing is very likely to at least temporarily change the ways in which these significant people want to relate to you. In some cases you may need to accept that the other person has become so uncomfortable with these positive changes that the relationship is may be effectively either difficult to heal or at the extreme over. But their understandable resistance must not at the same time be allowed to prevent you from going forward with your healing, in the hope that you can have both your healing as well as your relationship with them.

Which can involve a delicate balancing act where you want to move forwards with your healing, but simultaneously do not want the other person to think any lesser of you, because you find this unavoidable temporary disruption to the comfort of your relationship to be absolutely necessary. Self healing frequently needs considerable amounts of tact and diplomacy in your dealings with them, and especially a willingness to compromise which must never be seen as you giving up or being weak.

What you must always be looking for is a WIN - WIN situation.

You asked me to give you a a new reading about any insights on the progress of your healing sessions, and where this is taking you. Your progress cannot be easily measured through a reading, as to do so would be for me to impose my own standards of how that progress should be measured, in place of your own. What one person might view as being minor and trivial progress, another could see as instead being major and anything but trivial.

The last part of your question basically answers itself, through the most commonly accepted definition of the meaning of the word HEALING.

TO HEAL YOURSELF IS TO MAKE YOURSELF WHOLE: BODY, MIND AND SPIRIT TOGETHER AND IN GREATER HARMONY.

YOUR JOURNEY TOWARDS YOUR OWN HEALING IS THEREFORE A JOURNEY TOWARDS INCREASING WHOLENESS.

YOUR BODY, MIND AND SPIRIT ARE NOT MEANT TO REMAIN SEPARATED FROM ONE ANOTHER AS SO OFTEN HAPPENS IN OUR EARTHLY EXISTENCE, AND MUST NOT CONTINUE TO BE TREATED AS IF THEY WERE SEPARATE.

IF THEY (your body, mind and spirit) ARE ALWAYS TREATED AS BEING SEPARATE FROM EACH OTHER, YOU ARE NEITHER WHOLE NOR  BY ASSOCIATION TRULY HEALTHY ON ANY ONE OF OR ALL THREE LEVELS.

So in summary the main message of this follow-up reading above all is that your healing is just as much about the journey as it ever was about its destination. If you become too concentrated on either where this is heading or how well you are performing, then essentially you have missed the most important learning opportunity which your healing experiences were intended to provide you with. Do not try to get ahead of yourself and attempt to work at the same time on healing your body, mind and spirit to the total exclusion of everything else which is still important to you.

Sometimes the progress made on healing one of these three components is greater or lesser than those of the two others, but that is OK and entirely par for the course. Sometimes your progress will be temporarily in the negative. Even the most optimistic and strongest amongst us continue to have their bad days now and then. Welcome to the human race.

Trying to take on or do too many healing methods at the same time to speed things up according to your own restricted time schedule or another person's ways of measuring your healing progress is felt to be an excellent recipe for eventual disaster for your body, mind and your spirit.

It is not so much if or whether that disaster will happen, but more a question of when.

Get out of your own way, and allow the healing energies to do most but definitely not all of the work for you. Worrying too much and for too long about either your relative performance or your healing journey's destination are highly counter-productive to what you have set out to achieve through your own self healing.

Please read "How to love your life's path"

http://www.positivelypresent.com/2009/07/love-your-path.html

EoT

lol. I am the type who gets bored easily of doing one thing over and over again.Sometimes i am just curious to know whats happening but well,i must be patient when it comes to healing.Nice article.There were some things in it like'not worrying about the future and loving the present which brought some things to light.I will reflect on that.One thing i wanted to ask.Do you think it will be better if i heal one aspect at a time like healing the body,then moving on to mind and spirit.I do all at the same time and was wondering what you think will be best in my situation.Thanks for the reading.Really helped.Blessings.

Ziyad,

Because your body, mind and spirit are already highly integrated or interconnected, it is virtually impossible for you to heal one of them without it also simultaneously having a positive flow on healing effect on the remaining two aspects.

Therefore your question, with due respect as I know that you are really making a courageous and concentrated effort to find the most effective, fast and safe healing method for you, is based on a false assumption.

So I suppose that the best advice which I feel that I can offer you about this is for you to do anything which you believe promotes and enhances the healing of either your body, mind or spirit, then allow their natural interconnection to work in your favour in bringing about a much more significant and more harmonious healing on all three levels, when compared to what you might have thought was possible up until now.

Does this information make any sense to you?

Does it answer your question to your satisfaction, or does it only unintentionally confuse you further, when deciding whether you feel that you are doing everything which you reasonably can to accelerate your healing?

Above everything else, does it give your sense of self confidence a welcome, positive boost or jump start?

Please let me know your answers to the above questions either way, under this thread.

Yours faithfully,

EoT

Hi EyeOfTiger,

I understand what you mean and it makes complete sense that healing one aspect will simultaneously affect the being in a whole.That means i can focus all my concentrated energy and efforts on one aspect instead of sharing my energy among all aspects at once.I think i will focus on loving my body first and see what happens.Thanks very much for your answer.