Jenny,
Let us both forget that it ever happened and move on with your reading, as it is clear from both your introduction as well as your Tarot reading request that you feel that things are not going particularly well for either you or your marriage at present, and that you are consequently looking for guidance and a renewed sense of direction as to determining where you should move forwards from here, in order to most effectively deal with whatever relationship issues are most worrying you
It is important for me to remind you that any insights which are gained through this or any other intuitive reading must not be regarded as a substitute for some professional marriage counseling, if your husband is willing to go along to the sessions with you. But there is no doubt that when these insights are used in combination with good professional advice and support from a qualified and properly trained marriage or relationship counselor, that significant progress can often be made with issues which you by yourself are not adequately prepared to come to grips with.
In directly reading your husband's thoughts and intentions towards you and your relationship with each other in the future, I am immediately at a distinct disadvantage be cause to do this as well as I would like to this would require me to give you a third party reading which is not allowed under our forum rules. A third party reading BTW is defined as being about any other person than the registered member who requested the reading on the appropriate forum.
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This third party rule does not mean that I am unable or unwilling to try my best to answer your questions, but it does mean that any predictions about what your husband might do or not do during the six months covered by this reading would be unreliable at best, and useless at worst. I have enough problems predicting what I would do in any given situation if my own marriage of nearly 33 years felt under threat, without also trying to predict what your husband might do, or indeed whether your fears and doubts concerning your marriage are based upon solid physical evidence instead as they so often are upon your own feelings of insecurity.
And it is perfectly possible that some of your doubts and fears do have at least a partial basis in reality. There is no way to know this for sure through a psychic reading as predicting human behaviour at any time can be a nightmare, and when two people who still love each other in their own ways are placed under extra levels of stress from both inside and outside of themselves, things just go from difficult to near to impossible in the sheer number of probable outcomes.
Is it felt through this reading that you have a valid reason for feeling concerned about the future of your relationship with your husband?
YES.
But contrary to what you may be feeling is the reason for you feeling concerned, the reading is telling me that the main source of your current difficulties is most likely coming from within your relationship, instead of from outside it. In other words at least according to this reading, it is felt to be unlikely that your marriage is being threatened by any extramarital activities by your spouse or by a relationship between him and another woman. But I can never guarantee that this has not happened in the past or will never happen in the future, even though I know that you would like me to be able to offer you this 100% guarantee for both the past and the future.
It is felt to be much more likely that many of your present challenges as husband and wife are due to either faulty ranging all the way to a possible total breakdown of effective two way communication of each others thoughts and feelings with those of their partner. It is my observation that many but definitely not all marriage conflicts and disagreements begin as a result of unintentional misunderstandings as well as the often big difference between what we each promise we will do, and what we end up doing.
To a certain extent many of these misunderstandings and differences between our promises and our behaviors are products of unconscious thought processes, which by definition are beyond our conscious control to change or treat. Which is precisely why this reader and reading is also at the same time strongly advising you to get professional relationship counseling in addition to this reading, when making you mind up about what is your next best move.
I would go so far as to say that it would be most unwise to disregard this note of caution about making our decision as to whether or not you feel that your marriage still has a future, which is given to you with the best of intentions as without this professional help while I am not saying that your task of healing your marriage would be destined to fail in spite of any efforts made by you to improve the atmosphere between both of you, it is likely to be much more difficult without the profession help than with.
I see re-establishing and keeping open the two way channels of effective and emotionally honest communication between you and your soul mate as being vital to your hopes of turning your marriage back around into a more positive direction again, approximately in the period between now and early March 2012 (six months hence).
If indeed your marriage is going to recover its former strength and security over the longer term ( I cannot guarantee either way), your mutual ability and willingness to communicate and once more work co-cooperatively as a united team instead of as two separate individuals is probably going to be the most accurate predictor as to whether you will remain together as a married couple living under the same roof as one another, well into the future.
Take good care of yourself and of each other,
EoT
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