Hey! I'm a little new to this site, but I was browsing around and saw that they had this reading section, and I thought it was kind of cool and was seeing if I could request the talents of someone here to get one maybe if someone was willing?
It's nothing super major, but lately in my life I have just been feeling really anxious and stressed about life and school stuff (applying to grad school,,, trying to figure out my life directions in that area etc) and I've realized that I've really been letting that get to me. I usually don't like having negative energy in my life very long, and most of the time I tend to be a pretty happy positive person,, however sometimes with me anxiety can just take hold and take over my thoughts without me even realizing.

I have also been dating this super nice guy for the past few months, and he's usually really considerate, attentive, and caring with me. We seemed to have a pretty good, genuine thing going on, and things were going quite serious. When I have been stressed usually he has been the one I turn to. However I'm a little worried that lately this has effected our relationship recently too, as only within the past couple of weeks we've been having any problems at all, and recently we have decided to part ways and have some distance for the time being (although we still like eachother and want to still stay in touch)
...and I'm a little worried looking back now that it has to do with my negative perceptions and anxious energies that I have been putting out. I kind of want things to be right with us again, and now I kind of miss him in my life. Some guidance in these areas would be appreciated if someone could... thanks

This is a guy that I could definitely see something serious and long-term happening with, he seemed to indicate the same from what I could tell, and we care about eachother a lot. And I know that likes me a lot, but I'm a little worried that I hurt him by saying that I wanted some time to be by myself and single and do my own thing for a while. And I hate to admit it, but there was this other guy too that I am friends with that I became a little interested in, but I realized that I was attracted to him for the wrong reasons (nothing happened at all but I was a little distracted).
I thought it was for the best, but now I'm regretting and really re-thinking this decision. Although one or two things minorally bothered me with my guy (to do with his habits), he's such a great guy and treated me so well, and seemed to just really adore me so much. It's been well over a week since we've spoken. Do you think that there is a chance that we have something really good/ are meant to be, and that he will eventually forgive and come back to me? (once we start communicating again)

Heather,

As long as the lines of two way communication between you remain open, and there is also a mutual willingness to work together through the issues which lead to you temporarily separating, then there is always at least the possibility that he will eventually be willing to forgive you, but that is only if you are first willing to forgive yourself for being imperfectly human.

I am not able to directly read his thoughts and intentions towards you, as this would require me to give you a third party reading, which I am not allowed to do according to the forum rules.





Because I am unable to directly read him, it is next to impossible to predict if and/or when he will decide to forgive and want to get back together with you. And since all readings given on this forum are only thought to refer to a period of the next six months after your request was made, you are only effectively asking my source whether or not this will happen approximately between now and the latter half of February 2012.

This does not of course mean that I cannot read him indirectly though his relationship with the woman who requested this reading, but I must warn you to view any predictions about which option he will eventually choose between now and then with an extreme degree of caution, as false positives and false negatives are both par for the course. Overall indirect readings tend on average to be far less accurate and reliable when compared to direct third party ones, but since third party readings are banned because they are seen to be an uninvited invasion of the privacy of his thoughts, an indirect reading is considered to be the next best thing between on one end a third party reading, and on the opposite end no reading at all.

So the question on which this YES or NO reading will be exclusively based, looks something like that which follows........

"As long as we are still communicating with each other in an emotionally honest manner, is the probability that he will forgive and want to get back together with me during the next six months greater than the 50% which is usually expected by random chance or luck - YES OR NO?"

Also in the forum rules is stated.......

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ii. Yes and No questions are very hard to answer successfully with any reading.

The Queen of Wands which was your focus card for this reading, suggests to me that you may in your passion and enthusiasm to convince him to give you another fair go may be easily misinterpreted by him as an unprovoked attack upon his male ego, or that you are attempting to take complete control over the situation. Because he may feel that he is under attack and that his noticeably fragile male ego is being threatened (even if you are not doing this), he will respond by going on the defensive and probably stubbornly resist any further efforts by you to bring him around to your own way of thinking.

According to how successful you are at getting him to express his true feelings and doubts about whether he thinks you were intended to remain together as a couple in love  for a life time, WITHOUT AT THE SAME TIME UNKNOWINGLY INTIMIDATING HIM AND THEREFORE MAKING HIM AUTOMATICALLY RESPOND TO YOUR ATTEMPTS TO RESTORE THE PEACE BY HIM BECOMING OVERLY DEFENSIVE, the chance of you once more becoming a couple during the next six months begins at 50%, then rapidly climbs towards but never quite reaches 100%.

Remember to use this prediction only as a very general guide, as human behaviour is fairly difficult to predict in any given situation or with reference to any particular person, even at the best of times. At the worst of times it is virtually impossible to predict exactly what a person will or will not do before the event happens, with any amount of accuracy which would be useful to you in making your future plans.

He will as this reading's subject heading wisely proclaims, always remain the biggest unknown factor in your love equation.

Be good to yourself,

EoT