Hi EOT

Can you please give me a reading and tell when i will be employed? i am so sick of not being able to see myself "productive" ..getting almost desperate to start working.how long will it take me to be employed again ?

thanks a lot
sweet

Hi Sweet,

As you should already know from my approved reader introduction, no psychic reader or reading can accurately and reliably predict when you will get a job.

I completely understand and am acutely sensitive to your feeling of wasted or unproductive time and increasing desperation, most likely in addition to growing  financial difficulties as time moves on and the bills keep coming. But the damage which long term unemployment often does to our bank balances is in itself minimal when it is compared to the huge potential long term damage which it frequently causes to your own health, self confidence and self respect.

You are unknowingly asking me to tell you via a reading whether or not you will be employed within the next six months covered by your reading.

YES or NO?

But as our forum guidelines emphasis is the case,"YES or NO questions are very hard to answer successfully with any reading". This is mainly because there are so many factors both known and unknown which could potentially affect or influence the outcome, either positively or negatively. Any predictions I could make would only effectively amount to an educated guess. Rolling a die or flipping a coin is likely to be more useful to you than a YES or NO reading. The chance of false positives or negatives is therefore felt to be unacceptably high for me to risk getting my prediction wrong when getting a job soon is so critical to your future financial security, health and your career overall.

OK so now that I have told you what I believe a reading cannot do for you to offer you greater confidence that a job is in the pipeline, what can it reasonably and practically do? Instead of predicting how long it will take for you to work again, I feel that it would be much more productive for us to look at what you could possibly do in combination with you consulting a career guidance officer or the equivalent in your local area, who has the specialized knowledge of the relative availability of the type of job which you are looking for in your local area (which I do not).

And the main message which comes out of your reading is that you really need to begin believing again that you are employable, and that you have whatever it takes to make the grade with your prospective future boss or the interviewer who works for him or her. In other words if you do not believe deep down where it counts that you are worthy deserving and capable of doing that job, then you will be unknowingly giving people signals that you don't believe in yourself and in your abilities.

And because other people such as job interviewers tend to respond to our unconscious and body signals more perhaps than they do to the contents of our CV (curriculum vitae), they will accept your negative beliefs about yourself as being the gospel truth.

Since you appear not to believe that you have anything to offer the job or company that those people competing for the same position could potentially offer and much better, why should they take the unnecessary risk which is always associated with taking on a new employee and making a money investment in her training on the job?

Surely their reasoning goes it would be far safer and cheaper in the long run for them to take on someone who has an aura of self confidence around them, instead of someone who believes that they have failed or will inevitably fail, long before they ever get started?

Long term unemployment is poisonous to ones sense of self confidence, and on average the longer you are unemployed the more your self confidence goes down the toilet, and the more unemployable you will seem to the interviewer as time moves on. Also on average the long term unemployed are generally less healthy than the rest of us.

If you do not like yourself for feeling lazy and unproductive, you do not want to take proper care of yourself, including practicing good health habits  and seeing your doctor if and/or when this is felt to be necessary. Frequently depression is just around the corner, and the financial problems of not having enough money to pay your endless bills makes you even less likely to go to your doctor, or buy any prescribed medications if needed.

So there is really no mystery in explaining why the overall level of health (physical, mental, emotional and spiritual) of the unemployed person is often poor. And sick people take more days off for sick leave, and so cost a company more in both money and efficiency, when other workers must take over the sick person's extra workload, as well as coping with their own. Which often makes them more susceptible to health problems, and for taking more sick leave themselves. Taking on a sick, long term unemployed person can have a negative chain reaction or falling over domino effect on everyone concerned?

Your reading is also added to the above advice encouraging you to more fully prepare for and do your homework BEFORE the interview. Gain some knowledge of the company and its goals and products. Who thinks that they are in charge, and who is really running the organization? Do you already know someone who is working there who could put in a good word for you that would give you an advantage over your competition? Often it not only what you know, but also whom you know that can get you that job, ahead of the rest of them.

Try your level best to get a feel for what it is like to do that job day after day, as if it is not consistent with your own moral values and spiritual beliefs, they probably cannot pay you enough money to make you feel satisfied for very long to stay there, or feel that you are actually helping someone else or doing them a useful service through doing your job well (which is vital to your self respect, and your life's sense of meaning and purpose).

Therefore anything which you could do during the next six months to increase your feelings of self respect and self worthiness and health and being better prepared for the interviewer's questions could possibly between now and then mean all the difference between you remaining unemployed, and on the other hand giving yourself the chance to prove to everyone watching your progress, that any suggestion of you being lazy, unproductive, unemployable or being destined to become a permanent resident on the unemployment queue is complete nonsense, and that the negative, self defeating beliefs about yourself and your abilities to get and do this job well have no valid basis or leg to stand on in our outer shared reality.

I only give readings to people whom I believe are winners or survivors.

I do not read for people who are not willing to help themselves, or for people who do not want my help.

I do not read for losers who waste my limited time and energy, that I would much prefer to use more productively with WINNERS.

I have just given you this reading, so go figure out for yourself what my positive assessment is of you and your abilities to get through this, and to ultimately get the job that you want.

Take better care of yourself from now on: job or no job,

EoT

hi EOT

thanks so much for doing this reading for me. it was quite insightful . i am happy i asked you for a reading .

thanks again
sweet

UR I feel sweet by name, and sweet by nature.

And it was my pleasure and privilege to read for you on this occasion.

Cheers until next time we meet on this forum,

EoT