My birthday was 7/16/2011, and the following morning, I had an " intimate encounter" with a male friend.

Who otherwise, I would not touch with a 80 ft. pole! What was in the atmosphere that morning, because:

I can't make any sense out of it and he may/may not have used protection, which means that I could get pregnant!

Anyone getting any vibes out there?

Marlena,

Perhaps because of of you overdoing things on that night or over enjoying your birthday celebrations or over relaxing, and possibly in addition being under the influence of too much alcohol which is well known for removing all our normal social inhibitions, you made a serious lapse or error of judgement, when you would have usually given him an emphatic NO.

Now that there is a possibility that you are either pregnant or may have contracted a sexually transmitted infection through having unprotected sex, please immediately see your family doctor without any further delay or excuses.

We are unable to offer you medical advice through a reading, which should only be discussed in private with a qualified doctor or specialist.

Do not just leave things as they are and hope for the best, or play around with pregnancy self diagnostic testing kits as these are known to give too many false positive and negative results, and possibly cause you unnecessary extra stress on top of your understandable fears of the consequences of your mistake.

Also do not beat up on yourself for being fallibly human, like the rest of us.

This is always easier said than done.

Get good and solid medical advice and support from the person who is in the best position to look more closely and sensitively at this possibility, in the context of your overall health and with full knowledge of your normal menstrual cycle.

Especially if you notice any unusual and worrying symptoms which suggest that there are changes going on within your body, get these looked at as soon as possible (I am mainly talking here about the possibility of STDs), as the sooner your treatment is begun, the more likely it is that it can be successfully and quickly cured.

There is of course the possibility that you are neither pregnant nor infected, or that you are both.

Only a qualified medical doctor or specialist who has your full medical history and can physically examine you over the next few weeks or months can tell you with any reasonable degree of authority and certainty whether or not you have been lucky on both counts, on this particular occasion.

Instead of worrying yourself sick and allowing your vivid negative imagination to paint the worst possible scenario, go straight to the qualified and properly trained source which your family doctor represents.

Another option depending on your location would be for you to visit a local sexual health and advice clinic, but in many cases it is only the step leading up to you eventually visiting your family doctor, who has all of your medical history close at hand (the doctors at the sex clinic will generally have to be given this right from the beginning, wasting valuable time you cannot afford to lose).

I feel that you deserve nothing less than the best of life and love.

Hoping that this message helps in some small way to more fully inform and comfort you.

BTW, I wish to send you in closing a belated birthday greeting for the 16th of this month, which is now just over a week ago.

L&L,

EoT

PS:I included in the subject heading that I do not regard this to be a reading, which basically means that at least from my viewpoint it does not make you ineligible to receive a proper reading, within the period of the next 30 days.

Could other readers including those on other forums please take note of this fact for the purposes of their own eligibility testing of my friend Marlena?

Many thanks with respect.

EoT

On this occasion my friend Marlena chose to respond to the above advice, and thank me for it by way of a private message.

Dear Marlena,

You are most welcome for any assistance rendered by me on this forum (reading or otherwise, as happened here), with what are felt to be your best interests with special reference to your long term health, security, safety and true love and happiness always being kept uppermost in my mind.

Love, Light and Good Health 2U,

EoT