Hello, I was wondering if it was possible for some one to give me a reading? I would greatly appreciated.

Thanks  

Norma

Hello Norma,

I hope that you did not start to think that nobody would eventually respond to your request.

Yours will be a general reading by default, in the absence of any specific questions.

Knowing that you live in Las Vegas I would have logically thought as an outside observer that any significant problems which you may be currently experiencing would most likely be primarily money or gambling related, but your reading tells me to think again about what possible emotional challenges you are facing which potentially lie more deeply below the surface, or are likely to be hidden even possibly from your own daily awareness.

Which might then in turn indirectly be leading to amongst other things possible money problems and a gambling addiction? Such surface problems are frequently only the outward symptoms of an issue which is much more basic and fundamental, and which only exists at deeper levels where they are frequently difficult to get access to by normal methods.

At the core of your challenges and the problems that you are having in facing and mastering them, is a very strong feeling of insecurity and a nagging fear that nothing which you do to help yourself get out of your predicament, is going to make any real and lasting difference.

So why try in the first place?

Even worse than that either you or someone else close to you during your upbringing has I sense convinced you into believing that anything which you do with the positive, healing intention to improve matters is only guaranteed to make them that much worse than they already are.

I am told that you have some brilliantly well thought out plans to get yourself back on track in several different life areas at the same time, but it is as if you are carrying around with you an inner authority figure who is always giving you at least 100 different reasons why your plan must ultimately and almost inevitably fail.

Now I am not suggesting here that you are mentally unbalanced or hearing voices of spirits in your head, which are telling you these things with the malicious intention to destroy your remaining self confidence, but if you listen more closely to that voice it is not your own, but that of someone in your earlier years who represented to you the expert, authority and best judge as to what is in your best interests. Or someone who seemed to always to you better know what was or is good for you, when compared to yourself.  

Having this "inner voice of your childhood" always interfering with your ability to carry out your plans is not likely to make you feel motivated to do anything other than to surrender to what appears to be your destiny not to be successful at achieving whatever you originally set out to or planned to do. In a strange way it is like your subconscious mind has become your daily conscious mind's own worst enemy. It is rather like each and every day carrying around inside your head with you an inner saboteur or terrorist.

And yet your subconscious mind was designed to protect you from harm and help you survive life's many challenges. It is an inbuilt survival mechanism ruled mainly by one or more types of fear. The problem arises when its alarm bells are continually turned up to their most sensitive settings. False alarm warnings will be going off very frequently which appear to be signs of a potential threat to your survival (physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually), WHEN THEY ARE NOT A THREAT AT ALL.

According to your reading your feelings of insecurity (and I am not a qualified psychologist, so please do not quote me on this to someone who is) stem mainly from the self confidence destroying fear filled words which your subconscious mind is telling your conscious mind on an almost hourly basis.

These words need to be re-programmed to something which is more consistent with you gradually overcoming your sense of insecurity and not being good or smart enough to solve your own problems, and heading back in the right direction for you again. The theory goes something like that which follows. If your subconscious fears and insecurity no longer have the opportunity to sabotage your every effort to protect you and any of your dependents from financial disaster, then the brakes are taken off your creative intelligence which can then in turn be used to come up with possible practical solutions.

During the next six months or so thought to be covered by a reading of this type, your success or otherwise in having your plans reach fruition (meaning in plain English that your plans will work out as well as you had hoped they might, or even better than you predicted) will largely be determined by how effectively you can first become more aware of your sabotaging inner voices before they can do any serious damage, and secondly how well you can come up with evidence that what they are telling you is absolute nonsense, and that it has no basis whatever in reality. With your inner conflicts better resolved, it should then be considerably easier for you and your dependents to overcome your financial and other significant life challenges on the surface?

"What to Say When You Talk to Your Self" by  Shad Helmstetter

http://books.google.com/books/about/What_to_Say_When_You_Talk_to_Your_Self.html?id=sR5-f5fUHJgC

Love, Light and Peace,

EoT

EOT, thank you so much for the reading and don't worry I understand we all have a life so I was just being patient waiting for my turn for some one to do a reading no harm on waiting. About the reading I do always doubt my self on making decisions, I always have a hard time making choices but I though that was natural since I am a Libra and well they always say we can never make up our minds.  I always think that if I don't make the right choice I'm going to disappoint the people around me, my mom, husband or kids, even my self. I so much wanna help people, help the world but in order to do that I must first help my self.  About the gambling addiction, well I don't have one I don't even like to gamble my money, I work to hard to lose it in a blink of an eye.  I think that in this case my husband is the one that some times gets a little to hook on playing and that's not that often it's like once a month that we might go out to the Casinos.... I will look into reading that book you recommended and once again thank you so much for the reading and may god bless always!

Norma,

It was my great pleasure to read for you, and I am pleased to hear that you feel that my reading was worth waiting for.

You have in return for the favour provided me with some very constructive and insightful positive feedback.

I must disagree with whoever made the generalised statement that all people born under the Zodiac sign of Libra have any more difficulty making up their minds, when compared to those people who were born under any other of the eleven remaining Sun signs.

I for example know of members of my own family and life long friends who are both Librans and who also do not seem to have any obvious associated problems in making decisions.

Yes it is indeed true that they continue to make a series of bad decisions, and subsequently have to live with the negative consequences of their bad choices and own mistakes over the longer term, but the actual process of making of these poor decisions does not seem to be their main problem at all (it comes all too easily to them).  

I was especially impressed with the following part of your response, as this is a difficult to master lesson for all of us to have to learn, in our own often unique manner and time.



This only confirms to me what I had already up until now believed was the case.

Giving readings is a two way relationship which has mutual benefits for both the reader, as well as for the querent (person requesting the reading).

Often the reader has just as much of value to learn from his or her querent, than what the querent stands to learn or gain from the working partnership with the reader.

You are possibly living in the worst place to live if you did show a definite tendency towards becoming addicted to gambling, but fortunately it appears that the government of your state is not going to recover much of their gambling revenue from your husband or yourself.

I have heard that this revenue mainly generated by the gambling addiction of international tourists, replaces state taxes having to be levied on the residents of Nevada.

http://blog.mapawatt.com/2009/09/20/las-vegas-consumption/

It was very nice to speak to someone who has such a realistic but overall positive attitude to overcoming her own personal challenges and personality weaknesses.

It is a pity that not all of us have such a deep understanding of ourselves and our specific human limitations, as you clearly do.



Same here!

Also my own feelings on the matter!

Ditto!

Amen!

EoT

Eot,

Once again thank you some much for the reading you are always a pleasure and never disappoint on your readings, always giving positive feedback.  I'm hoping one day we can all unite some way and help the world, heal the world and make it a better place for all, but until then we need to try and heal ourselves from within.


Thanks again!

God bless to all.

Norma