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Posts: 4135 · Posted: Mon Jul 18, 2011 10:49 pm

Hey Mirror,

It was my pleasure to be given this opportunity to help you through a reading, and I am neither offended by nor do I feel that you are lowering yourself to hear that you would take him back immediately without hesitation under his terms and conditions, in preference to you taking the risk of losing him for good.

As you said in your response you cannot help how you are feeling, and it is clear that the energy bond between you is still too strong for you to want to permanently break it, and indeed the motivation is simply not there to do this at any foreseeable time in the future.

In the end the decision to accept or reject the advice offered through your reading must always be yours to make, as it is your life to live as you best see fit to do so, and not your reader's.

I will continue to respect your right to decide what is in your own best interests, and support you in achieving your goal in a non judgmental manner.

With regards to any suggestion that I would think any lesser of you as a person for following your heart's desire; ABSOLUTELY NO WAY!

L&L,

EoT

Posts: 987 · Posted: Tue Jul 19, 2011 11:56 am

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,I just simply miss him very much and I can't stop thinking of him. I think that even when a really long time will pass,one part of me would always want to get back with him.

Dear YourMirror,

I wanted to add to EOT's advice from a female point of view. I hope you don't mind.

For most women we never forget our first love, that first intimate encounter and all the romantic things that it says about us. it will stay in our hearts and minds and bodies forever! But that is not the same as being in love. I bet a part of you deep down wonders why the split occured when all you did was bare your heart and soul, and give your innermost secret love to him. But that is reality and it hurts. The first time we share those golden special moments we change and can never go back, we become a new woman in all senses of the word. Please do not confuse your feelings with love.
The pain you are feeling is perfectly normal and as soon as your find another love it will diminish and slowly disappear until all you have is the memory of that first love. But that is something we never forget and that stays with us all our lives. What you need is to get things into perspective, file away the experience, learn from it and then move on with a big smile on your face. He is not worthy of you.

Try some positive affirmations, 'I am loved'. 'I am content with myself', and slowly as you repeat them you will feel better.

Cassie x

Posts: 29 · Posted: Sat Jul 23, 2011 10:11 pm

Dear Cassie,thank you for your post!

Everything you say is true and I'm aware of it,but there's something generally wrong in this situation .... I've mentioned probably that I've split with this guy for more then a year ago,that was January 2010! Since then,I've been dating some really nice guys,focusing my thoughts and my whole being to start a relationship and to build something that will be much more important to me. But it just isn't working ;( I can't stop thinking about this guy,and as for more,I'm not sure that he forgot me neither. I feel good with myself,and consciously I am doing everything to move on and connect with someone else emotionally,I really want that,but at the time when everything seems to be going good,a great friendship is developed and I'm having fun with someone else ...... it just feels that that is not IT and I kinda feel guilty,for I don't want to hurt anyone. No matter how hard I'm pushing myself,it's always the same old story. The problem is,long time have passed and nothing had changed,despite my afford. Perhaps I haven't found the one that will really enchant me,and yes,there's still time for that,but I think that my heart will always crave to get back with this guy

Thank you once again

Posts: 4135 · Posted: Sun Jul 24, 2011 4:20 am

Mirror,

Just an unplanned foot note to your problem, which you expressed rather well in my opinion in your response to Cassie.

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I can't stop thinking about this guy,and as for more,I'm not sure that he forgot me neither.

This is happening and continues to happen in spite of you going out with and enjoying the company and attention of other guys since January 2010.

Could I please draw your attention to the following web page, if indeed you do decide at some time in the future that your ongoing energy connection with your ex is becoming unhealthy and unwanted, and is preventing you from moving forwards with healthier relationships with other men?

Decording

http://healingtowholeness.com/decording.html

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As you become more aware of your psychic energy during the Running Energy practice, you may notice 'cords' between yourself and an other person. By definition, a cord is an obsolete or unwanted energy connection with another.

Most ordinary communication is unconscious, happening below awareness between the chakras of those involved. And very often this unconscious communication establishes a cord between the people. Cords can be easily removed, although some ways of doing this are better than others. It's important to pull cords rather than cut them. Like an unresolved imprint, the remaining energy of a cut cord in your feeling essence can too easily attract another cording experience.

Although cording is a result of an unconscious agreement between two beings, it takes only one person to decide they no longer wish to participate in the agreement.

Here is a script you can use to easily and safely remove cords, and free yourself from unwanted energy attachments with others:

The script mentioned above is provided free of charge or obligation for those men or women who wish to try this method, when other methods may have failed to give the desired result.

WHICH IS FREEDOM FROM UNWANTED AND UNHEALTHY RESIDUAL ENERGY RELATIONSHIPS, WHICH CONTINUE TO BIND US TO OR MAKE US CO-DEPENDENT UPON ANOTHER PERSON.

Hoping that this web reference might help you, if and/or when you are fully prepared and ready to give it a fair trial period.

Also see other sites and articles about DECORDING, using any reputable internet search engine.

EoT