I have met who I believe to be my soulmate. We were married Jan 3. But we are having some really bad problems right now. I dont want to lose him. I feel such a connection with him and we are so intune. I feel like my soul is being ripped apart as i lose him :(

Hi Pally,

Yes I saw your picture reading request also posted today in the appropriate forum for doing this.

http://www.mysticboard.com/profile.php?mode=viewprofile&u=52072

Please do not feel offended or think that I am being insensitive to the rocky start that your marriage has made, but I feel not only that a psychic and/or picture reading could make your relationship problems even with the best of intentions much worse than they already are, but that you also badly and urgently need a professional marriage counselor if at the first sign of any conflict you are afraid that your marriage will not go the distance.

There are some areas or issues in which readers are effectively told to mind their own business, as to intervene could unknowingly deprive a soul of a valuable opportunity to learn important lessons which this experience was specifically designed to teach teach.

Yours is one of those forbidden areas listed as off limits, into which only the bravest of readers would dare to tread without being invited to by the person's Higher Self or spirit guide, and without first having a body guard to protect him or her from an angry spouse who is out for revenge for them interfering in something so personal and private.

I learned this lesson the hard way. I received genuine threats to the safety and health of both my family and myself on another website where I naively gave such a reading. I am not willing to risk it ever happening again.

Usually a combination of the professional advice of a good marriage counselor or if it is appropriate to the person's religious beliefs a priest or minister of the church, plus the self confidence healing and emotional support which can be provided during a psychic reading can significantly improve the situation in the shortest possible period of time.

I feel that the picture reading method would probably serve as the best possible introduction towards beginning the healing process, but that if you are really determined to save your marriage I would strongly suggest that you and your new husband should at your earliest possible convenience visit a qualified professional marriage/relationship counselor to start exploring the possible reasons why these problems have appeared at such an early stage of your what was to be a life partnership.

In closing I wanted to make you aware that soul mates often repeatedly come together in one lifetime after another, precisely because they have outstanding issues from past lives which still need to be resolved. The fact that you are having problems with your marriage could therefore be seen as further evidence that you are soul mates after all.

Unfortunately being each others soul mate does not automatically mean that you will live happily ever after. Usually quite the opposite is true. I would even go so far to say that your soul mate is a person who knows more than most other people do how to push all your wrong emotional buttons at the same time.

Does it sound as if I am being overly negative, sarcastic or making fun of what is obviously a very upsetting problem for you as a valued member and friend? If so, then this was never my intention. Sometimes my dark sense of humour is the only thing which gets me through some of my life's greatest challenges. So I am laughing along with you at how ridiculous and unfair life often appears to be on the surface. I am neither laughing at you, nor your sad situation (understood?).

Loving regards,

EoT (male)  

I so feel for you, I read EOT's daring and compassionate post and looked at the pictures that you posted, and it is quite obvious the change of energy in them all.

(By the way, if you read the guidelines the forum doesn't actually allow pictures to be posted of people other than the member wanting the reading, so you may find that they are removed and you are requested to post one of just yourself. Also perhaps for more sensitive safety reasons the picture should only show you)

But I have to ask what happened? What changed? I would forget any feeling of soul mates here. I don't see that intimacy. Put that idea aside and look at the whole picture, based purely on cold hard facts. You must know deep inside what has happened. And I echo the sense that you need to seek help, perhaps by talking quietly and calmly with your husband first.  Was this a quick engagement? How well do you really know each other or was this a quick jump based on an initial immediate attuning?

It is very hard to give a reading after what EOT has said, and I sympathise with his bad experience and do not want to appear that I have overruled his thoughts.

So I won't read for you but just jot down a few sensations. You hold a very strong energy and you can change this, but it is up to you to change and perhaps that may not be a good thing so soon in a relationship. Marriage should be a balance of two personalities, give and take, and endurance through the tough times, not one giving all just to survive.

Can you talk to family or close trusted friends?

we were together for 2 years. I find it strange that you say you dont see the soulmate.....i have been told by other that it is there and that as of now he is guarding himself and hiding his true feelings. I have a very deep connection with him. I am able to feel his thoughts, i can sense when he is near and now if he is in trouble or hurt, i have even felt his pain. But based on facts......i think he is afraid to be happy. He is a soldier and his first deployment is coming up. When he was in basic and AIT his exwife cheated, trashed his stuff, drained his bank and had their daughter calling another man daddy. Things were good with us until his deployment date got closer. In march he started to become very distant and easily angered. He had to be in absolute control of everything. I have tried to talk to him but its near impossible. I have asked for marriage counseling, he went to one session. I now go alone. What did you mean exactly by i can change this?

EOT-- thank you for responding, i didnt know my request for a reading would be off limits......its not something he would even know about or care if he did. Anyway I do see this as him sabotoging himself and his happiness. I can tell, myself, the differance in his demeanor from the earlier pics to the last one. He is very good at putting a wall up and acting like he has no emotions. But i look back at other moments and other pictures and I can see the love and emotion very strongly. I dont see that as something that can just go away. He has mentioned how he has felt as though i am meant to be by his side. But now he says that he is meant to be alone and such because he is a warrior. I do think he is afraid to be happy and trust that i would always be faithfully by his side.

I know that I feel we are meant to be. for many reasons and experiances we have shared.