It's ok EOT, if you think that a reading is gonna do more harm than good, then i'll just take the general reading offer, let's see what the cards pick up, since i do have other concerns aside from this one. Anyway, my source said that they were always fighting about her social network account, a lot of people have been adding her. And that's how he got her right? By adding her as a friend then getting her number? So he's afraid that someone will do the exact same thing that he did, and lose her. I'm assuming she cancelled it so that there won't be any more fights. And to be honest, to answer your other question, you know when you have a friend and you don't like the idea of that friend hanging out and associating with someone you don't trust and even see as an enemy? That's how i feel, since i got betrayed big time by that guy. That's why i'm curious to know if they're still a couple or not. But i don't think they're living in together though, since the psychic would have told me if she's already married or like you said, living in.

Dierdre,

Thank you for being so understanding of the delicate position which the reading could potentially have put me in, if it had gone ahead as requested.

As Thursdays are my regular weekly day on account of my usual excellent behaviour, I will most likely get around to giving your general reading either very late on that day, or failing that early Friday morning Adelaide time.

Until then,

EoT  

Dierdre,

Your understanding and patience in not continuing to push what was a very difficult subject for a reading has obviously pleased and impressed my inner guidance to the point that I feel that this general reading could not be more positive and encouraging if I had instead written these things myself, not being written through me as happened.

Before I could even get to shuffle my Tarot cards, a strong image came into my mind's eye of the card called appropriately the STAR.

You are the star of the moment. Here is your lucky star. Your star is currently on the rise or in the ascendant, and the next six months are likely to be of great potential for you to make huge leaps forward in both your personal and working lives. This is a card that looks to the future with both hope and courage in knowing that if something good is meant to happen to you, that it will very likely do so between approximately now and late October of this year.

It does not predict immediate or powerful change during the next six months, but it does seem to be saying that you can establish a firm foundation within that period upon which you can later build mainly through your own efforts.  Slowly but surely is the best way for you to continue to move forwards in so many different aspects of your life at the moment. There could be a healing of conflicts and disagreements which are spoiling what is otherwise a reasonably happy friendship.

There is always help and moral support out there for you, even at the worst of times, and the Star could well mean that such help and support could without any warning arrive from a source before late October which is completely unexpected, but is very welcome never the less. This unheralded form of assistance might arrive in the form of a friend or counselor, an uplifting book or inspiring piece of music.

Anything which appears as if by magic in your life and heals your wounded spirit. Just as you are an unique individual, those specific things which would most and most rapidly heal your wounded spirit are also unique to you.

You can achieve what ever you have set out to do, but it will take time and you must not lose sight of your goals at any time on this journey, or take your eye off the ball for too long at a time. Patience is a virtue, but depending entirely on good luck to do all the work in your place definitely is not a virtue.

Overall, minus the friendly warning at the very end of your reading about the dangers of you leaving everything to chance, you could not I feel hope for or reasonably expect a more positive and encouraging reading than this one.

You could be swinging on a star,

EoT

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Thank you for the reading EOT, so your inner guide didn't even let you shuffle the cards? That must mean something good. Well, the reading is very positive and full of hope that whatever i do will succeed. I hope so.. Well, i do have this tendency of going with the flow so i hope that it won't spoil whatever luck i may have in the future. And the song that you posted is quite funny, lol. Anyway, thanks for the reading EOT, may you have a nice day.

Dierdre,

Not even getting to the point of shuffling the cards before the reading begins does happen to me now and then, and I completely agree with you that this should be regarded as a very positive omen for your future, and that the card was only waiting for you to hear its message.

Going with the flow is not the same thing as passively doing nothing to help yourself, and leaving everything entirely to chance or good luck.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with us going with the flow of Life and the Universe.

We are actually strongly encouraged to do so.

It is when we try to swim upstream against the currents that we often soon get into trouble, and risk going under.

You can both go with the flow and plan for the future at the same time.

The two things are not mutually exclusive of one another, and both are necessary and complementary.

Sometime in your childhood it appears that someone has taught you all too well that you can either go with the flow OR you can instead plan for the future.

But not both.

Wrong!  

We must all do more of both, but in a more balanced manner.

Cheers,

EoT