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Posts: 33 · Posted: Fri Apr 15, 2011 9:52 pm

In recent months my face clear pretty good. Girls begin to notice me more, now I look good. But the problem is that I'm still single, I can't believe that I'm still alone. PLease tell me when do you see a new love for me? Many blessings.

Posts: 4135 · Posted: Sat Apr 16, 2011 12:16 am

Warrior,

This request seems with respect to be a re-run of the one which you posted in early February, and I can only conclude based upon this that your relationship with Cristina did not recover.

As I explained to you before, although there are many fortune tellers who claim to be able to predict when our next love will appear with an accuracy greater than expected by chance, with some rare exceptions such claims are empty ones and are often mainly intended to attract you in future to that reader as a returning paying customer for many more years and dollars of your hard earned money to come.

Remembering that readings of the type given here are thought to refer to the next six months or so, I feel that it is far too early to be asking the same question only two months later.

It is true that you have made significant progress with clearing up your skin condition, and should definitely give yourself well deserved credit for having done so, but this has obviously not yet translated itself into the increased sense of self confidence which you are looking for, which you hope in turn will eventually attract your new lady love.

Therefore rather than attempting to give you a relationship reading about one which does not yet exist, or deceiving you into believing that I can reliably foretell your future love life, I feel that we need to look more at the possible reasons through a reading as to exactly why the expected increase in your self confidence has not been as forthcoming as you hoped that it might at this relatively early stage in your skin's healing. It seems clear to me (no pun intended) that the condition of your skin while it is one reason for greater self confidence, is only one of several possible reasons.

Accordingly when I asked my inner guidance through the cards on your behalf and best interests as to determining what these other possible reasons for the delay in your expected increased self confidence might include, the very first drawn card was the Nine of Pentacles.

The 9 card of any of the four different Tarot suits is normally interpreted to mean that you are just finishing a previous part or phase of your life, but that the new or next one has not yet kicked in. You are currently between the old phase and the new one in a sort of no man's or should it be no woman to love's land, where your patience and determination not to allow your skin condition to hold you back any longer from finding the deep and lasting type of love which you so richly deserve is going to be tested, sometimes to the point that there may no longer seem to be a light at the end of your tunnel, or an end to your waiting. There will be an end to it, but it will be more of a delayed one than you would have preferred it to be.

Specifically the Nine of Pentacles (or Coins in some alternate Tarot packs) is a card about being able to spend money on yourself, work for yourself, or about you being willing to accept what abundance and blessings have been given to you as a just reward for your ongoing efforts to improve yourself, which may involve you spending some extra money now. The flowing robed woman on the face of this card always reminds me of Mother Nature surrounded by a garden which is overflowing with the visible products of all the many hours of hard work and patience that she has put into it to make it beautiful and luxuriant.

As any worthy gardener knows to get it to this point may have involved weeks, months or even years of carefully planting seeds or new plants, fertilising the soil, ensuring that there is adequate sunlight and water for the seedling to germinate,grow and mature. Then there is protecting each fragile new plant from extremes of weather, disease, insects and all the various enemies of the garden ultimately coming to fruition in future.

When the task of establishing a garden starts it can be anything but glamorous and can involve you having to get your hands dirty and beyond doing what you are practically able to do to ensure that the garden is a success, have a little faith that contrary to what it might first appear, it is very likely to turn out well in the end if we do not worry ourselves sick about in during the process.

OK, so what does all of this botanical and garden symbolism have to do with the question as to why your improved skin condition has not yet attracted a woman for you to love and who loves you in return? Your reading is comparing the work you have done to clear your skin to you recently having planted a seed of self confidence in fertile soil. Unfortunately in the real physical world unlike in our dreams, there is often a considerable delay between planting that seed and being able to look at and enjoy the fully mature, healthy plant.

To you who have been waiting so long to find the woman of your dreams, the time between clearing your skin and seeing the results in how much more attracted women are to you must seem like an eternity (this is called psychological time), but compared to the average delay between cause and effect, two months is like only a few seconds. Not that that is any great source of comfort to you, while you are still waiting.

So in summary I feel that there is probably nothing that you are doing wrong that is causing this unavoidable delay between clearing your skin and finding her. Also I sense through the reading that you have not missed out doing something which you really should have to help yourself more. I doubt that there is something wrong at all with what you have been doing up until now, but I suspect that it is more that this inevitable delay is a fact of life which you are unfortunately but understandably finding difficult to patiently accept as having to exist at all.

The psychologists call what we think about our outward appearance our body image. It is like a picture we hold in our minds of what we must look like to another person, whether it is an accurate picture or it is not. In severe eating disorders the person may look like a stick figure and look like they have not eaten in months, but their body image is that of a fat person. I am not saying that you are either fat or skinny, but I am saying that the condition of your skin as you may see it is an important part of your body image.

Even though your skin has cleared up remarkably well, your body image has not yet caught up with this reality. It will eventually do so if you do not constantly dig up the seed to see if it is still OK like the most impatient form of gardener. There is definitely such a thing as trying too hard and thinking too much about your future relationships, when you have the rest of your life still to live.

Psychological time is making you feel that clearing up your skin was a waste of time because post Cristina (and you losing her had more to do with her failings, than any of yours) you still have not got the result you were working towards. Just keep doing those natural things to consolidate the gains you have already made skin condition wise (including drinking more fresh water every day), try not to focus all your energies and concerns on finding her before you believe that it is too late, and above all relax more and be yourself.

Any woman who bases having or not having a relationship with you entirely on the outward condition of your skin is not worth considering as your future partner, in my opinion. Beauty is only skin deep, while inner beauty and goodness shines through even the worst case of dermatitis, acne or any of the hundreds of other skin imperfections which we humans are prone to at certain times in our lives (especially when we are most trying to establish and maintain our love lives).

I feel through the reading that your chances of finding her within the next six months are only 50 - 50, or the average expected by chance. But faith and persistence can often make any predictions made by even the best psychics in the world (an elite group which I do not claim to be a member of) useless in an instant, so please do not hold me to that feeling. In fact, I personally challenge you to prove me totally wrong about my current feeling that your chances of finding her between approximately now and the middle of October are only average.

Be kinder to yourself and be more yourself. If she does not accept you exactly as you already are skin blemishes and all, and wants you to be someone else other than whom you truly are inside as a spiritual being, then my advice would be to forget her (always easier said than done).

Namaste,

EoT

Posts: 33 · Posted: Sat Apr 16, 2011 6:46 pm

Again thank you very much for your help and your time. Now I don't feel nothing for Cristina, I realise that she is not a good person. But at work are a many beautiful girl more beautiful and nice than Cristina. I'm sure that soon I will find my girl. Thank you very much and many blessings,

Posts: 4135 · Posted: Sat Apr 16, 2011 9:32 pm

Warrior,

I am always pleased to be of assistance.

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Now I don't feel nothing for Cristina, I realise that she is not a good person.

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Any woman who bases having or not having a relationship with you entirely on the outward condition of your skin is not worth considering as your future partner, in my opinion.

We totally agree on this.

Cristina and women like her who base having or not having a relationship with you entirely on the outward condition of your skin are bad or toxic for your sense of self confidence and self respect.

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I'm sure that soon I will find my girl.

With that type of positive attitude, I am sure that you will.

EoT