Can someone tell me if Melanie really feels nothing toward me anymore and it's truly over? Thanks

We are not able to do third party readings petal.

Can you rephrase the question so its about you?
I would recomend a general reading in these circumstances.

Suzi

Do you think I will ever date Melanie?

My good friend,

What we think is not of so much importance than what you feel in your guts.

Do you feel you will ever date Melanie again? Deep in your heart what answers are you getting at this question?  None of us are prophets to give you a clear cut answer to your question. Having said that, I feel for you and the situation you find yourself in. It seems to me a break up has taken place and you are wondering if there will be a reunion. I would suggest that you look at the practical side of events since the break up:
Has there been any communication between you two? If yes, what do you talk about? What is the mood of the communication and what vibes do you get from her? What is her behaviour like? What is her body language and, indeed, what do her eyes tell you? If, on the other hand, communication has come to a halt, how long it has been since your break up and the breakdown in communication? Has any one of you made an effort to start dialogue and its consequence? Some of these should start giving you the signs or the hints of the current state of energies between you two.

Without looking into a crystal ball and finding all the mystical answers in it, we should look at the facts and perhaps leave emotions aside. Facts usually tell us more than emotions. Facts don’t lie – well, most of the time.

If the break up is a recent one, I think both of you need time to heal and view things under a different light, once the pain and feelings have calmed down.

I also feel the desire to start dating Melanie is stronger with you and not for the time being reciprocated by her. It is a feeling I am getting and I feel I should express it to you. I hope I am wrong. My dear friend, if I am going to be honest with you and here once again I am guided by my feelings more than anything else, I would say for the foreseeable future I do not feel that you will be dating Melanie. Every person connects to a situation in his/her own way and I am being guided by what is coming to me by way of what I am feeling about this situation and your question. I know it is a responsible thing to say to you what I am getting through my feelings and I, therefore, suggest that you get in touch with yours and see what answers your are getting. The initial feeling I got after reading your post was one that you yourself are not sure in your heart if you will start dating Melanie again.

If you strongly feel you will date her again, then I suggest that you don’t give up until you have exhausted all avenues of contact, communication and dialogue with your lady friend and only then decide which way you (on your own) or both of you are heading.

Most of all I wish you clear mind and clear vision for what you exactly want and feel about this situation.

With much blessings to you.
Cedars

Thank you cedars, you are rite :| I don't feel I will date her again, I feel deep in my heart I miss her but was never 100% sure as she was about how I felt. However if she really felt that way why would she abandon our relations whatever they were and get involved with someone so much further away. It just seemed like she was pushing for something because she knew it wasn't totally true. If she'd just waited a little longer things would've been better. The practical side is she was like an 8 hour drive from me and I did want to see her, but not until I was sure she wasn't feeding me lines to get me involved (she had kids). I really haven't talked to her in months and when I do she will say very little and end it abruptly. I tried calling her a few times she never answered. So those are the hints I suppose that you are talking about.

You're probably right now, I would like to hear from her and try planning something but she definitely has someone else even if he is farther. I was never totally sure if she felt how she said, so I waited to find out. Part of me could say her just stopping contact means she was infact lying (she didn't get what she wanted so didn't care) but maybe I wasn't being as open and trusting, idk. Thanks I do think I've exhausted all avenues of contact at this point.

Take care and thank you for this help