Well Courtney, you have a big decision to make.
There is a lot of background to this and I know that you are in two minds already as to whether you should make this decision or just let things drift and see if things improve again. It's hard to decide to rock the boat after all this time has been invested. Part of you wants to sit and do nothing and hope that he makes the right decisions but the true you, the strong inner person is scared to leave things without having a forceful impact on the decision making process. So what to do? Talk, talk, talk, break that silence and as questions, leading questions so that he knows that you know, and so he has to think hard before answering.
You can create the future you want
