EoT

Can I please have reading regarding my relationships both with my partner of 3 years do you see future in this (without doing a third party reading) and family relationships are a bit strained?

The Ace of Cups shows me that there is a huge potential and a wonderful opportunity for you to improve your relationships with your partner and other family members and long time friends during the next six months. The Ace of any of the four Tarot suits represents the seed from which all good things can eventually grow with regard to how well you get on with the various other important people in your life, but your thoughts need to be given direction and translated into a series of positive actions which will if you get the balance right restore a sense of peace and harmony to your love and family and social lives, which you could never have previously imagined was possible.

Aces represent new hope, a real possibility for positive change, a definite, planned action to take and a much brighter and happier future that you can help to create , mainly through whatever conscious decisions you will choose to make in the present moment. In particular the Ace of Cups talks about rising emotions and increased feelings of love and compassion for people who like yourself are trying to do their best, but being human are by definition far less than perfect and often make mistakes.

This card appears to be saying that the only effective way for you to restore relative peace and harmony to your relationships is to recognise that most of these mistakes that we all make at times are not intentional, and therefore should not be taken personally to heart to mean that they wish to do us harm.  Which is always easier said than done when nerves and tempers become frayed, and we may in the heat of the moment say something that we could easily learn to regret saying, but not be able to take back as if we had never said it.

Note that this does not mean that you should simply accept whatever treatment is handed out to you, as if you do not deserve any better treatment from those who claim to love and care for you. You and your partner are being encouraged to be more assertive or stand  up for your rights as an individuals and as a couple to make important decisions affecting you both, with minimal interference from people outside of your relationship. But at the same time without becoming openly aggressive or nasty about it, which can be all too easy to do when your powerful emotions take control.

The King Of Pentacles being a member of the Pentacles or Coins suit in some alternate Tarot packs suggests that disagreements about how your shared money should be used are very likely be at the core or heart of many of your relationship problems with your partner, family member or friend. This is hardly surprising as disagreements over money are one of the top two reasons why many relationships come to grief, and eventually end in separation and/or divorce.

The other top two reason with special reference to a love relationship is sexual infidelity, and in many cases each of these two reasons can feed on and significantly increase the chances of the other happening.  Conflicts concerning money are frequently only symptoms of deeper conflicts within your relationship, which are nowhere near as visible as the money arguments are, and vice versa or the other way around is also sometimes true.

Kings are planners and motivators of the highest and most successful class, but without the willing co-operation and loyalty of their subjects, their plans will often come to nothing. Having this card featuring in your reading leads me to believe that these money problems within your relationship are unlikely ever to be solved entirely through your own efforts, no matter how hard you might try.  

Unless your partner, family member or friend is also willing to accept his (or her) part of the responsibility for these financial problems and other you are experiencing, talk in a civilised manner to you, communicate his true feelings while respecting yours and is willing to meet you at least half way (compromise), then your reading is saying that your chances of stopping these conflicts from doing more serious and lasting damage to your relationship with any of these important people in your life are probably zero ranging to poor.

Here comes The Sun. While this is not a past, present, future reading, and there are obviously still considerable challenges in front of both of you to solve your money and other relationship problems, I would definitely regard it as being a positively encouraging and inspiring sign or omen that the worst is now behind you.

The overall message and tone of this card is that brighter and happier days are on the near horizon, but in order to be able to take maximum advantage of the wonderful opportunities on offer to you to bring about a happy reconciliation or cessation of hostilities, a united, co-operative team effort is required by both of you to make this a real possibility of happening between now and the end of this September (6 months).

It is both you and your partner's, family member's or friend's project or "baby". The nude infant seated on the horse's back on the face of the Rider-Waite version of this particular card suggests that your relationship of any type could potentially be reborn into something which barely (nakedly) resembles the one which you have now. The colour yellow itself contributes significant amounts of added energy (motivation), creativity and restored optimism to the picture as a whole.

What follows is a more comprehensive list of the keywords which are often associated in readings with this bright, sunny, happy colour of YELLOW.



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Hoping that you may find these insights to be both relevant and helpful to you in creating happier relationships with your partner, other family members and long time, loyal and trusted friends.

Love, Light and Healing,

EoT

EoT

Thank you for my reading
Ace of Cups - Your right I have been thinking about improving these realationships  but where to start its harder to translate into actions but will bear in mind

King Of Pentacles - money is a problem as with most people and your right in that it is not easy to talk about in an open way I donot want it to wreck my relationship
Nice to hear the worst is behind me and the words associated with 'yellow' are very positive I will no doubt revert to these in the coming months.
Many thanks
JJ

You are very welcome for the reading, and thanking you in return for your feedback.



It is always much easier said than done, and your reading offers you some places from where to begin translating these principles into relationship improving action.

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Yours faithfully,

EoT