Annek,
The last three weeks must have felt to you like an eternity, as although your separation was by mutual agreement, you obviously still have very deep feelings for him and based upon what he told you before he left, he still has feelings for you.
Because of the third party restriction I am sadly unable to read his mind and heart directly, but my first impressions before I begin your reading are that this will only be a temporary time out rest period for the both of you to think in more detail about what you actually expect from the relationship over the longer term.
I get a definite feeling that both of you do not want to either hurt or disappoint your partner, possibly because both of you are lacking in self confidence and are currently confused about what you want (hence the reason for this temporary trial separation to allow you to more closely examine the issues which are at the centre of your difficulties in the way of keeping your relationship moving forwards or progressing.
The Tarot card called
JUSTICE could in some cases be interpreted in the normal sense of the meaning of the word to mean that the legal system and the courts are somehow involved in all this.
Are either of you currently in the process of ending your previous relationship, as there may be legal claims and disputes which first need to be fully addressed and resolved, before you can really relax and enjoy yourselves without having these dark clouds constantly hanging over you most of the time spoiling everything.
An alternative interpretation for Justice featuring in your reading is that there needs to be a balancing of cause and effect, or of decisions and their consequences.
Now I realise that this interpretation might sound rather vague to you and of little or no help to you in getting your relationship to work properly again, so I will offer you a completely hypothetical example (may not apply to you) to try to make the meaning clearer.
I feel that this probably is not happening in your specific situation, but the example is useful in showing you exactly what I mean by a balancing of cause and effect.
So let us imagine for the moment that prior to you starting your relationship one of you had also applied for a job which was in a completely different city or state from where you are presently living.
The person concerned would be thinking about such matters as whether if they were successful they would have enough money to be able to move house, getting all of their arrangements in order just in case they need to move quickly, and if the job was in a different country any necessary immunisations and emigration papers needed to cross international borders.
So the cause in this example was the original decision to look for a new and better paid job. And the effects are all of the things which have been set into motion as a direct consequence of that decision. Some of these consequences are positive, some are more negative.
Some are already known well before time, others are not. It is difficult to make any future plans about having a close relationship or committing yourself fully to it when the rest of your life is in such a state of confusion or disarray thinking about all the things which may need to be done if you get the job.
With your relationship it may be due to a lack of money, legal claims made upon him by another person probably female, outside pressure from his family and friends to end your relationship before it really gets going due to their personal prejudices or jealousy against you. Or he may have serious health problems which he does not want to burden you with. And of course there could I suppose also be another woman competing for his affections.
This is often the first thing we think of if our partner seems to be getting cold feet about being with us, and only you can determine if it applies at all in your circumstances. If you do have any suspicions that he is being unfaithful to you (although infidelity technically first requires a mutually agreed and committed, closed to any other woman relationship to exist), be certain to get plenty of solid evidence before coming right out and openly accusing him of anything like this.
If instead you jump to any premature conclusions based upon rumours or weak evidence which would prove nothing, you could end up looking rather foolish and destroy any remaining hope of healing the relationship to a point where you could both no longer pick up from where you previously left off. I sincerely hope that this will not be discovered to be the reason for you drifting apart, but the possibility needs to be faced and dealt with.
As with most other close human relationships, your reading is telling me that there is a lot more going on below outward surface appearances here, that is causing this rift to develop between you. There is the remote possibility that you are one of the increasing numbers of couples who find that they need to cycle on and off with each other because their relationship is so intense that staying together too long at a time could end up in them destroying each other or burning out.
Some even long time married couples for example can only live under the same roof for a while, then need to have some time out from each other before they live together under the same roof again. It is far from being an ideal, dream situation, but sometimes it is in the best interests of both partners and of any children who may also be affected to continue this living arrangement.
As you can plainly see, there are generally many more questions than satisfying answers when doing such a reading as this one, and I would caution you to only use these insights in combination with other non intuitive advice from family, friends, professionals and non professionals.
Your relationship and love life are simply too important to base any major decisions entirely upon the conclusions from a psychic reading, and precisely because I am unable to read him directly any predictions made on this basis may be unreliable at best, and less than useless at worst.
This man and what he is going to do or not do next towards getting back together with you within the next six months, will forever remain the biggest unknown and least predictable factors in this love equation. I am hesitant to make any prediction, as he could at the any moment shoot it down in flames or throw a spanner in the works so to speak.
With you doing readings yourself, I am probably not telling you anything you already did not know, but possibly needed to be reminded of by an independent outside of your relationship and therefore far less emotionally involved observer.
Readers often have difficulty giving objective readings for themselves because of this, so please do not see this as meaning that you are being over emotional. It is just the way things often are when we are in love. Our usually dependable psychic radars are rendered temporarily inoperable or suffer from serious overload when it comes to divining our closest relationships.
Love, Light and Healing,
EoT
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