Your time of waiting is now at an end!
You are clearly not the only person here who has been MIA.
At my age it is my memory which is often MIA these days!
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| What do you see for me now that I have my life more in order? What do you see for my love life? Family? Friends? Also I'm looking into moving, is this a good idea? I want to know whatever it is that you get! |
Your first and focus card called called
DEATH tells me that there are major changes coming up for you during the next six months, but that few if any of them are negative. All significant changes can be viewed as potentially frightening or scary, as they force us to move outside our normal comfort zone which can be disconcerting and upsetting to say the least. But associated with the inevitable risks involved in successfully surviving this transition period are a host of possible benefits and opportunities which would have never been available if you had allowed your understandable fears to hold you back.
In a small number of rare cases, such as where the person whose reading it is is either terminally ill or of a very advanced age, this card could predict your own physical death, but I hardly think that this is relevant to your situation with you being 18 and possibly disgustingly healthy compared to me, so please henceforth put it completely out of your mind.
What is much more likely being talked about here is about you having to make major changes and improvements in the way in which you think about and do things and relate to other people where you will need to figuratively die to your old ways, in order to find or be reborn into much better ways.
So in these terms you are throwing out many of your past security blankets and other means of emotional and financial support to make yourself more independent of having to always rely on other people, in turn making you less vulnerable to being let down by them.
Your reading is NOT saying that you should cut yourself completely off from your family and friends and stop listening to their well intended but often misguided advice, but it is saying that you need to increasingly stand up for your rights to live your life as you best see fit to do so. You need to be more assertive, without being at the same time overly aggressive and bite the hand that feeds you.
Being too independent of others can be in some situations reckless or even potentially dangerous. There is a need for you to progressively move out into the world to create a better life for yourself as an adult, but do not in the process burn your bridges behind you, especially at this relatively early stage. Do not get rid of your safety net before you are not capable of surviving a nasty fall, if or when it happens.
If you are able and willing to patiently wait and to make whatever practical preparations are necessary to eventually leave home well after another 12 months time from now (including having your own independent and regular source of income) then you are being advised to do this.
Only if your personal situation at home is unbearable or it would be unsafe for you to remain there any longer than is absolutely necessary, would I be telling you that I see a move now as a good idea.
Or if you do have the opportunity and the resources to move out and live somewhere else, why not make it relatively close to your current support network and family home, allowing you to do this more gradually and safely than moving out too far away, all at once?
In the end the decision must be yours and yours alone, and I would not be basing this important decision entirely upon the output of a psychic reading. There are so many other factors both known and unknown which could make any predictions I could offer you concerning what I see as likely to happen to you during the next six months instantly wrong, that I am hesitant to do so.
The chance of me getting false positives through your reading (where I am with the best of intentions offering you false hope and an empty sense of security when there is little or none) or false negatives (where there was every valid reason for you to be optimistic and hopeful, but I unknowingly took both of these away from you) is simply too high for me to make any rock solid predictions for the coming months which are more reliable than flipping a coin - heads you move, tails you do not. All that I can advise you is to make your move towards adulthood and independence a more gradual one, where there are already backup or contingency plans handy, just in case your best laid plans go belly up.
As John Lennon wisely wrote in the lyrics to his song "Beautiful Boy".....
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| Life is just what happens to you, while your busy making other plans. |
http://www.oldielyrics.com/lyrics/john_lennon/beautiful_boy_darling_boy.html
Be kind to yourself,
EoT
