Heart,
As I only gave you my personal opinions on February 27th and not an actual reading, it is true that you are eligible to now request this one. The less than 30 days between consecutive requests rule does not therefore apply to you this time. Only if you had been given a reading in any of the reading forums less than 30 days before now, would it apply.
So what you appear to be saying is that you would allow your current boyfriend to decide instead of you which college you should attend, and therefore by so doing possibly determine what your future career options might be.
When it comes down to you deciding between what your current boyfriend thinks about which college you should go or not go to, and which college might best prepare you for your life's work, you are going to give him higher priority every time?
What happens if both your examination scores as well as your career guidance officer indicated that going to a community college would be the best thing to do, and might in fact offer you certain advantages for you getting relevant work experience in your chosen field of interest?
What happens if after you decided not to go to a community college based upon what he thinks, he left you for someone else (not that I am saying that this will happen, or that I would want to see this happen)?
To me over here in Australia, GED, NIU, SAT/ACT, ivy league, Harper and Oakton colleges really do not mean much and are of little interest, but your future happiness and success means a lot to me and I could not be more interested.
I applaud your courage in deciding to go back to finish your education after having dropped out of high school earlier due to depression, but your reading makes me most concerned that after all the hard work you have done in restoring your sense of self confidence and self respect to the point that you feel capable of doing this (and the reading agrees with both of us that you are more than capable of completing your education and getting a good job on graduating), that you are possibly unknowingly placing all your personal power and trust in the hands of someone whom you may not have known for very long, and whom may or my not still be your boyfriend in six months time.
Your reading is warning you that although it is realised that you want want to please your boyfriend and listen to his advice about the reasons why you should not attend a community college, they are his attitudes and beliefs, and not necessarily your own. Also when it comes down to it, it is your education, your career and your future success and happiness which are in danger of being lost here by trying to always please him.
Now I am unable to read your boyfriend's thoughts and intentions towards you directly through a third party reading, and I am therefore giving him the benefit of the doubt that if it was brought to his attention just how difficult it was for you to restore your own sense of self identity after being so depressed, and if he recognised and appreciated that you must go with what is in your best interests in spite of what he thinks about community colleges if indeed you are ever accepted to one, then the only person forcing you to do anything would be yourself.
If he would use his influence over you to make you do what he wants you to college wise regardless of it possibly giving you a better and more well rounded education (which I hope that he would not do), the question would be what next. Is he then going to tell you what friends you should have or where you will live, work or play? I seriously doubt that he would do such a controlling and manipulative thing to someone whom he claims to love and care for more than life itself, but if there are any signs that this is where things are moving then perhaps you need some time to yourself to reassess your situation and stand up for your own rights to live your life as you best see fit to do so, which includes which college you choose to attend, which career, which friends, where you would like to live etc.
Your reading than goes on to suggest that you should be talking this over with your boyfriend before you make any decisions that you might eventually all too late regret making. This would have the double purpose of you finding out for sure if he really would stop you from going to a community college, even if everything clearly indicated that this would be the best possible course of action to take in your own best interests, and also allow you to discover if over-controlling and manipulation are part of his pattern or way of having relationships with any woman.
Of course if you get into the non community college, what he thinks about community colleges will be irrelevant, but if he has a life long habit of controlling and manipulating women you have been forewarned about what life would be like for you if you stayed together.
There is unfortunately very little reliability in YES (yes you will get into a non community college) or NO (you will not get into a non community college) readings. The number of false positives and negatives which are common with this type of reading make any predictions or insights coming out of them highly unreliable at best, and less than useless at worst. There are so many factors both known and unknown which could potentially effect the outcome and spoil any predictions, not the least of them being the other applicants for the same college. That factor alone would require a third party reading to be given about every other student who is applying for the same college position as you are.
Sorry that I cannot be more exact with any predictions.
Sending you late happy birthday wishes for your 24th.
EoT
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